How do you know when a person is right for you?

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  1. Singlesstreetlife profile image69
    Singlesstreetlifeposted 8 years ago

    How do you know when a person is right for you?

  2. livenlearn87 profile image81
    livenlearn87posted 8 years ago

    I know it sounds cliche' but you just know.  For me it is about following God's plan, and not my own.  That is what led me to the right person.  I think it's important to really have a good graspe of who that person is and what they want out of life.  Aside from being in love, you also need to be compatiable and share same views of major issues.  Such as, kids or no kids, travel or no travel, both spouses work or don't work, religion, finances, all of those issues seem to get overlooked.  I am always amazed at how many people fall in love and get married without really knowing who they are marrying.

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    I believe outside of you feeling it......  your heart also tells you.  That can sound unrealistic, but when concerning matters of the heart you also have to pay attention instinctively/intuitively even though your heart may have you clueless.  Being in the know of their "intensions" or if you share the same views doesnt really mean anything.  We have to be realistic sometimes and remember that nothing is written in stone.  There isn't anything that is truly guaranteed.  Not life, relationships, love, family, etc.  Meeting and falling in love with a mature honest individual is what counts.   Someone is scared to share with you, or tell you something that wont change in a hour or a day.  Even though the love relationship that you have may not last, you know that you indeed have a friend forever.  Consistency counts in relationship, Positive consistency of course.

  4. Singlesstreetlife profile image69
    Singlesstreetlifeposted 8 years ago

    I believe you know a person is right for you when you experience some of the following:
    1. Peace and joy in their presence
    2. You feel free to discuss anything with them.
    3. Most of the people that matter to you connect easily with them.
    4. When your values and goals match and or compliment
    5. When you feel valued and respected.
    6. They are ready to go in the same direction as you.
    7. They are commited to your progress and development


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