My husband and I are constantly fighting about family

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    sstrombergposted 8 years ago

    My husband and I are constantly fighting about family

    Ever since we had our son family is all we fight about. He holds grudges against my mother for every little thing she does wrong yet I choose not to say anything about his mother because I would rather there not be tension there, and if I do I say what I feel and leave it at that. When we fight, whether its about this or not, it's like I am beating a dead horse, he says whatever he has to say that will temporary fix things and then it just happens again. But when I say sorry we have to keep talking about it and he just keeps getting upset.

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    dabeanerposted 8 years ago

    Huh? ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...  ...

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    HappyHerposted 8 years ago

    Stop fighting about it really.  If he has a problem with your mother, tell him to talk to your mother about it and leave you out of it.  She is his mother-in-law and their relationship shouldn't be maintained by you.  Remember though, your husband should come first ahead of her, so make sure you make decisions about family issues with him first and then support those decisions to your mother or anyone else in the family.