how can I leave my relationship without losing my job?

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   mariamaria38posted 15 years ago

   how can I leave my relationship without losing my job?
   
   I have been in a relationship with my boss and now I see that I have to leave because he is jealous, possessive,and a nasty person just to me. He is nice to everyone else, he puts me down, and physically hurts me. He busted a blood vessel in my eye and laughed abou it. As a matter of fact, he then got angry with me because my eye was bloodshot for a week. I am not allowed any friends or a phone, I have set up a secret bank acount, and I am trying to  rent an apartment without his knowledge so I have somewhere to go. I just need some advice from another source since I am not allowed friends.

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   relacheposted 15 years ago

   If you have been physically abused by this person, you need to contact the authorities (police).  That would take care of ending the relationship but not your job.

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   stricktlydatingposted 15 years ago

   He's turned out to be a monster.  If it's possible find a family member or friend who can take you in so you can move out and focus on applying for new jobs, so you don't have to encounter him any more.

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   casinocashloverposted 15 years ago

   go to human resources if you have one. get outta that toxic relationship and i think you might have to get a restraining order and aa differant job. leave the loser with bad self esteem!!

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   fosgingerposted 13 years ago

   I see what's going on here. The whole biding your time thing, yeah I'm trying that crap too, they get wise on to that crap. I agree with relache. I'm in one of those mental abuse relationships. But I got mr. prozac, and happy klodopin to make things better. He will not get better. The old me would have said punch him in the juggulor. But that's assault, with possibllity of intent to kill ( yes maam did my homework.) Get out of the relationship, hope you been taking pictures every time this happens. If he attacks you again, take pictures, GET OUT. Have the authorites arrest him for domestic abuse an slap him in the face with a restraining order.

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