What are the reason people get divorced?
Most on the lacking of spouse responsibility?
How about children from divorced family? Can they feel secure as the child from normal family?
Is it the best solution when they cannot stay together? should they stay together because of their child's sake?
If the child is growing up around a loveless family (the parents don't really love each other anymore) it can be more damaging than a divorce. Most people simply have no more romantic interests in the other person and either cannot stay with them or will not. The best solution is to try to work it out and if that cannot be done, then peacefully parting ways. They could even remain friends, the friendlier the exchange between partners, the easier it will be on the children and themselves.
I myself am a child of divorce. Speaking from experience it is never good to stay together for the children because it only makes things harder on them. My parents divorced when I was 13 and my sisters were 10 (they had been married for 15 years) and it was all the more traumatic for us growing up in a loveless home. It made us feel like anger, aggression, and violence were acceptable behaviors. If two people are willing to try and work it out I say go for it, but if one doesn't love the other it's inevitable in time. Children of divorce can feel secure as children who live in two parent homes, it's a matter of the breakup. Both people should act mature, civil, and try to get along for the sake of the children.
Numero Uno reason...finances.
I got divorced many years ago. The reason was my partner refused to get help for an alcohol addition. They were abusive and threatening. I decided the best thing for our child was to leave and provide a home that had none of the chaos that comes from addiction.
It was the best decision I ever made.
Lack of mutual understanding and compromising attitude are main reasons.
because the love is not exist from the beginning. where there is love there is unity
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