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me and my bf have been going out for 6 months stupid me had to send a message to

  1. dakotarae profile image52
    dakotaraeposted 7 years ago

    me and my bf have been going out for 6 months stupid me had to send a message to this guy saying...

    your hot and all this but my boyfriend found out and he always holds that against me like when we argue and i say i am sorry to him all the time and that it's the past to let it go but he keeps holding on to that saying well yeah that is the biggest thing that had ruined our relationship  and that I don;t love him I have told him more then 5 times i am truly sorry it was a mistake i regret it what can i say for him to stop saying this repeatedley whe whenev?

  2. Melissa Royal profile image58
    Melissa Royalposted 7 years ago

    Everyone makes mistakes...in fact, I think this is sort of a common mistake. Your boyfriend is probably jealous of the other guy, because he thinks you'll do something with him. Eventually, your boyfriend will learn to trust that you're not going to do anything with the other guy and that you are committed to him.

    There is really nothing you can do or say to your boyfriend, this is something your boyfriend has to learn on is own. He has to let go of the past on his own time, because that is something that can not really be forced. Other than that, my advice is to try not to get in fights (especially not over silly things). After all, it takes two to fight, so if he makes you angry about something, try to bring it up calmly with him or just tell him you will talk to him later.

    I hope I have helped. I wish you the best of luck!

  3. Cactrot profile image64
    Cactrotposted 7 years ago

    Have you tried telling him you think he's even hotter than that dude? Or even better, show him somehow.

  4. animekid profile image71
    animekidposted 7 years ago

    Hi. I'm 52 years old, and I'm in my second marriage...just celebrated 28 years together. Everyone makes mistakes in life and relationships. My advice to you is be supportive of your BF and understanding...to a point. You can stop apologizing for it now, just let him know that your with him and not the other guy...period. It's up to your BF to get past this now. If your relationship is strong, this should be over at this point in time I think.