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Once you have ended an affair, should you tell your spouse or let sleeping dogs

  1. nifty@50 profile image75
    nifty@50posted 7 years ago

    Once you have ended an affair, should you tell your spouse or let sleeping dogs lay.

  2. moderndays profile image56
    moderndaysposted 7 years ago

    DON'T TELL HER IT WON'T END WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. nifty@50 profile image75
    nifty@50posted 7 years ago

    Why did you say her? This is strictly hypothetical!

  4. Austinstar profile image87
    Austinstarposted 7 years ago

    Why would you tell anyone that you had an affair? Especially after the fact? Move on.

  5. fridayonmymind profile image78
    fridayonmymindposted 7 years ago

    I would seriously question your own motive for telling your spouse.  If there is a reason that he or she needs to know, for example, if you think you may be carrying a sexually transmitted disease, then I believe that you have to tell your partner.  If you are just trying to offload or feel less guilty or brag or make yourself feel good or better in any way, then think before you say anything.  Why should your spouse suffer because of something you did?  (By the way, when I say "you" I'm speaking to anyone in this hypothetical situation, not to any one person specifically.)

  6. John B Badd profile image61
    John B Baddposted 7 years ago

    Know yourself., do what you gota do . . .

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