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    hollasipposted 14 years ago

    he has a girlfriend, but we've been sleeping together for months, he tries to control what i do,

    who I see, and tells me how much he cares, how much he wants to be with me, then when I finally do see him again, after trying to get out of the 'relationship', he turns on me, tells me how nasty I am, how he hates me, he's done with me, why??

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  2. jennshealthstore profile image75
    jennshealthstoreposted 14 years ago

    Because he wants you to feel guilty. He wants you to turn around and say its ok. He has his cake and is eating it to. If he really cared, he would be with you. He is playing mind games.

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  3. chimeneelenwo profile image60
    chimeneelenwoposted 14 years ago

    My dearest sister, i will like to tell you that 80% of men today love women because of sex. that is to say when they really want to have sex with you, you will start tell you things that will make you happy and after geting what they want, the relationship will be in great danger that you cann't control. So my sister take heart, use this as a lesson and move on.
    He's only intrested in sex that is why he's saying those things to you.

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  4. kmartel profile image35
    kmartelposted 14 years ago

    This guy has control issues, simple as that. My advice, get away as far as you can, that means, no contact, no emails, text, change your phone number, change your email, cut off ALL ties.  Why put yourself through the pain and humilation?? He ALREADY has a gf, but loves the control he has over you.  Nothing here for you girl, get out while you can and it doesn't have the time to turn nasty on you one of these days.  You deserve so much better, love should be unconditional, no hurt, no pain, just pure love.  He gets off on hurting you, humiliating you, makes him feel good about himself, because of his low self esteem.  Start off by making yourself feel good and up your self esteem, so some cleaning in your life.  Good Luck..(you have your whole life ahead of you, remember that.  This is a life lesson, learn it, and you'll never go back to that type of person again!)

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  5. stricktlydating profile image75
    stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

    You're the part time lover of a guy who has a girlfriend. Of course you're going to encounter problems with your relationship with him, that's why.

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