he has a girlfriend, but we've been sleeping together for months, he tries to control what i do,
who I see, and tells me how much he cares, how much he wants to be with me, then when I finally do see him again, after trying to get out of the 'relationship', he turns on me, tells me how nasty I am, how he hates me, he's done with me, why??
Because he wants you to feel guilty. He wants you to turn around and say its ok. He has his cake and is eating it to. If he really cared, he would be with you. He is playing mind games.
My dearest sister, i will like to tell you that 80% of men today love women because of sex. that is to say when they really want to have sex with you, you will start tell you things that will make you happy and after geting what they want, the relationship will be in great danger that you cann't control. So my sister take heart, use this as a lesson and move on.
He's only intrested in sex that is why he's saying those things to you.
This guy has control issues, simple as that. My advice, get away as far as you can, that means, no contact, no emails, text, change your phone number, change your email, cut off ALL ties. Why put yourself through the pain and humilation?? He ALREADY has a gf, but loves the control he has over you. Nothing here for you girl, get out while you can and it doesn't have the time to turn nasty on you one of these days. You deserve so much better, love should be unconditional, no hurt, no pain, just pure love. He gets off on hurting you, humiliating you, makes him feel good about himself, because of his low self esteem. Start off by making yourself feel good and up your self esteem, so some cleaning in your life. Good Luck..(you have your whole life ahead of you, remember that. This is a life lesson, learn it, and you'll never go back to that type of person again!)
You're the part time lover of a guy who has a girlfriend. Of course you're going to encounter problems with your relationship with him, that's why.
by AshleyLiz2247 years ago
I think I am falling for this guy.. We have been sleeping together and hanging out a lot and he...says he has feelings for me but he's not ready because he's still hurt by his ex they broke up a year ago but hung out...
by Unique Hiram4 years ago
What do you think of a woman that tries to ruin the relationship between a mother & her son?Do you think insecurities and control have a lot to do with a woman trying to put a wedge between a mother and her son?...
by tt19848 years ago
Help with boyfriends crazy baby mom Please?Heres the facts-my b/f and I have lived together for 4 years-he has a 9 yr old child with another person, their daughter lives with the mom.-I have been around there kid no...
by PrettyPanther4 years ago
We have two adult female cats who we adopted as kittens (they are sisters). They have always gotten along fine, sleeping together and playing together. We recently adopted three more kittens, males from the...
by mrpopo7 weeks ago
My dog tries to urinate several times during a walk; why and how do I stop this habit?My dog (a yellow lab) has an odd habit of urinating several times during a walk. After her first relief, she tries peeing but only...
by Rob Welsh5 years ago
Other than drowning them what's the best way to deal with someone who tries to drown pets in a sack?What would you like to say about animal cruelty?
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners.
Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.
HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc.
HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.