How to know if he loves me? Plus, I do not know if we are in a relationship but we have this....
strong connection and I do love him but its hard to tell him also I dont know whether he's using me or he just likes me as a friend or ...
and we meet online and only seen eachother through webcam
Thinking you have genuine feelings for a person you've never actually met or spent time with seems unrealistic to me.
Well, we talked alot online and seen each other but its not just that even though we dont know each other everyday we learn something new about each other and we show our feelings like he cares for me and i care for him when i told him about what happened in my life just some injuries etc he was always concerned and would ask me how was my day? and plus we have this connection its hard to explain but basically he would know how im feeling without me telling him and once we had this fight and he even mentioned that so theres nothing between us?
It is very possible to have feelings for a person that you speak with constantly. Getting to know each other is a big part of falling in love. But it seems to me that you guys have not yet discussed any feelings. If you were in a relationship you would be aware of it, so that tells me that you are not. If you are love with him, I think that you should talk about this. You guys need to be on the same page.
If you were in a real life relationship with him he would ensure you talk about it and your feelings for eachother. You would also possibly be talking over the phone and making future plans to actually meet eachother. If not, even though you feel you have a romantic connection to this person, it's an online romance only at this stage.
I think you two should date and see each other in real life instead of just web cam. I bet he loves you as much as you do and he is probably not just using you. I mean how is just using you he only met you online. He likes you so you should try and meat him in real life
I've been in a situation like this in the past. I met a guy online that I thought I really liked and I really thought he had a genuine interest in me as well. He was one of the first men to tell me that I was beautiful, so naturally I fell for him (the idea of him, more likely) we had a lot in common and had fun conversations. He was significantly older than me, but he never took advantage of me or anything like that... but the age was definitely an issue for him. When I suggested that we meet and date he pulled away. Eventually I had to realize that he was using me as a girlfriend substitute and by keeping me at a distance through online contact he knew that I would always be there as a back up (or as someone to always make him feel good about himself) so I eventually had to face the facts and admit to myself that he really didn't want me. I feel like this was long winded and I apologize... but I hope it helped.
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