what should i do if my girl friend say it takes time to fall in luv with u?

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   ahmerhussainposted 14 years ago

   what should i do if my girl friend say it takes time to fall in luv with u?
   
   i have a girl friend on internet and we almost dailly talk on mic. we are gud frinds and she knws tht i luv her but now wen i say tht i fall in luv wid u she said it take time although she say me i love u but i cant believe on her coz after saying. dis she treating me just a friend not boyfriend or not a love i want to marry wid her so plz plz plz sove my problam

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   lanealaneaposted 14 years ago

   She is most likely not ready for marriage from what it sounds like to me. Sounds like she thinks your really great but that she wants to experience more in her life first. Internet dating is just what it sounds like...It's the Internet. Love is so wonderful and patient and if feels so good but love is usually not found online. Most relationships fail at the beginning because the individuals think they are in love and want instant appreciation or instant approval or friendship so they pay attention to what they want to hear that makes them feel good. Please protect your heart by using your mind and learning more about what falling in love looks like or sounds like, its worth your time and you will get what you want. Hope this helps, sounds like she is a friend like you said but not to be sad because many people marry their best friends down the road. Live, Learn, and gain experience and you will always be able to keep the love you have. Just a tip, when your falling in love its so amazing but its the love that grows over time and you just cant rush it. The fastest way to push a girl away is to do just that, rush it. Hope this helps some.

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   jasper420posted 14 years ago

   if you think she is worth waiting for be patient other wise dont lead her on

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   vydyulashashiposted 14 years ago

   if u really want her and love her so much,wait n give her some time. if you thnk tht she is reluctant prove her tht there is no one greater than you who can love her n take care of her...she will definitely realize..
   
   loosing someone we love is really painful and waiting too..

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   noeticposted 14 years ago

   So the thing is dude, get your mind back and be practical...She does not love you for sure. Her behaviors says she will practically evaluate you against many others and decide...But that also is not wrong if you want her even if she doesn't love you. practical decision is also good enough.

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   blondepoetposted 13 years ago

   Seriously that is absurd. That's like waiting for the snow in the Sahara Desert. How does she know she is going to fall in love with you anyway? It's like waiting for the eclipse of the moon, it may happen, it may never happen, or it just may slip past you while you weren't even looking. My advice is while she is trying to decide whether she is going to fall in love with you or not, you should have another look around the marketplace, I bet you will find a girl in there who will love you without time restraints.

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