What is the first thing you'll do if you find out that your partner is cheating

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   crissykaneposted 14 years ago

   What is the first thing you'll do if you find out that your partner is cheating on you?

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   atienzaposted 14 years ago

   If I'm just finding out, I would do everything I could not to be around him for a while. My first reactions would be shock and probably rage. Since the situation could be volatile I would avoid all contact.

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   SIJO1posted 14 years ago

   Pack my bags and leave if someone cheats on you then they dont want to be with you so why prolong your agony

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   musasoposted 14 years ago

   i think best is to discuss the matter if it cannot be stopped than better to pack your things! take note that if your friend to be began to cheat on you he\she loose hope in you!!

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   wychicposted 14 years ago

   Tell him to leave immediately and come back in a couple of days when I'm not feeling so homicidal, get his stuff, then leave for good. When it happened to me before, I simply left. It was his house and I didn't want it. Now this is my house, and no one is going to take away my home again through their selfishness.
   
   That said, despite the pain caused by cheating in my past, I dearly love my husband, and as much as I've always seen cheating as a definite deal killer I honestly don't know if I could stick to my guns if it were him. Luckily, he loves me too, and has been cheated on before, and I trust that he would never inflict the kind of pain he had to live through on me.

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   NikenDianaposted 14 years ago

   first i will ask him why????
   and for that i will never ever want him to be my partner again..coz the important to have a partner is based on TRUST.
   so when there is no trust anymore then you can say Bye Bye...

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   miolunaposted 14 years ago

   I will leave this person right away and never look back.

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   Audarahposted 14 years ago

   My first initial reaction would be rage. After that, I'd leave ( as I have had the unpleasant experience of having to do)

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