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Hi I was seeing my ex boy for almost a year. Everything seemed great, I was in l

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    meccamegaposted 7 years ago

    Hi I was seeing my ex boy for almost a year. Everything seemed great, I was in love. Then out of...

    the blue, he says he wants to breakup. I was in shock. He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. I asked why, he said he didn't even know! I was so mad, I hanged up teh phone. Then the next day he texted me saying that I have low confidence and don't talk much. But this isn't true at all. It sounds like a cop out. I didn't beg or anything. I haven't contacted him at all. Its been 3 months since we brokeup. I haven't heard back from him even once. Why is this? Please help

  2. MickS profile image69
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Don't bother, plenty more fish in the sea, he's not worth the effort, get over it and find a new boyfriend.

  3. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    why would you still be worried about this guy. if he left you that easily then move on. there will be someone out there to love you for who you are and for what you are. no worries.

  4. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 7 years ago

    You're right, it seems like a lame excuse he gave you - try not to take that personally as it could affect your self esteem, only he knows why he ended it, it doesn't seem like he gave you the opportunity to discuss it properly with him and we could only guess his reasons... But bottom line is if he can go 3 months without contacting you he's just not good enough. As great as he may have seemed, unfortunately he has not come through for you in the end.

  5. perfectperception profile image61
    perfectperceptionposted 7 years ago

    I believe its a good thing that you realize that his answer was crap and that you were worth more than that, which was proven in your not contacting him over these last 3 months.  Your true love will reciprocate the love you show and you should accept nothing less!  www.perfectperception.net

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    AMBASSADOR BUTLERposted 7 years ago

    It was over for him and wanted out of the relationship. The reason was not important with him since he wanted to move on with his life and that is exactly what he had done.

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    MISALposted 7 years ago

    How do you know if a relationship is starting? You havent had "the talk", dont want to but have...
    been open and honest. Does anyone ever have the "talk" and how do you proceed? My frinend was dating a guy for a month and now has a boyfriend, she said he asked her... like highschool??? We are in our 30's...I havent dated since high school... what are the rules now?

  8. Rhonda Waits profile image78
    Rhonda Waitsposted 7 years ago

    Hes a loser and user move on. Your worth more than that. Respect yourself cut him off start fresh. Leave old in the past. When he comes crawling back to you, shut him down. Like he did you. Do not contact him,that is what they want.  Go out and fun with someone new and fresh. He is old bad news. Good luck.

  9. meantforsea profile image59
    meantforseaposted 7 years ago

    Maybe he met someone else? He might not want to tell you that, because...well, it might hurt your feelings? I'm not sure, but maybe?