When do you positively know when your relationship can not be saved?
I'm not talking about the simplistic verbal outburst "it's over" because in a lot of cases you can still work things out.
When your spouse or partner informs you that he/she is going on a date without discussing it with you first, and that 3rd party actually shows up at your doorstep, asking you if your spouse is ready for the date. In that situation, I wouldn't know what to think. If a man showed up at my doorstep asking for my wife to hurry up and come out for the date, I'd probably tell her to pack her bags and don't come back.
In my opinion, it's when the communication is nonexistent. When either party is unwilling to compromise and they dismiss and devalue each others point of view.
It makes it virtually impossible to build on a relationship if the efforts you make go unnoticed, or unappreciated.
When you can picture them sleeping with someone else and not care.
When nothing can be agreed upon.
When the thought of going home makes you sick.
When you realize your unhappy and have been for a long time.
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