Why cant my wife forgive me for watching porn in my past? I no longer do it sinc

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   dannyburdposted 13 years ago

   Why cant my wife forgive me for watching porn in my past? I no longer do it since we got married.

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   Claudin_Dayoposted 13 years ago

   she's still on the process of forgiving you ) don't you worry she loves you it's just that she can't accept that fact yet as of now..

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   sandun81posted 13 years ago

   Just convince her that it's not abnormal behavior for unmarried person to watch porn. Almost 90% of people are doing that.

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   dreamforsureposted 13 years ago

   Because she thought that the porn stars are more appealing than her.
   
   How to solve the problem is just make her feel that she is the most appealing woman in the world

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   Longhunterposted 13 years ago

   You did this before you got married, haven't watched it since getting married, and she's still mad at you?
   
   It's her problem, not yours. She needs to get over it and move on. Sounds like she likes being mad for the sake of being mad or she's avoiding something she's ashamed of herself.

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   Effectivemediaposted 13 years ago

   Ah look this actually happened to me and if you click through my links you'll see it did. In my case, I did have the odd blimp (as most of us do) but the problem arises when you don't discuss it first. It's that old word communication. We are inundated with all sorts of websites only two clicks away and we wouldn't be human if we weren't curious. Zealots amongst you look away now :-)
   
   In my case, that one indiscretion led to a whole forest of mistrust. When I was trying to sort out my online business, she thought I was on dating and porn sites. A totally understandable reaction on reflection but I made the mistake of trying to be righteous and casting aspersions back towards her - that she was paranoid etc.
   
   Trench warfare is completely destructive. It's not easy but just discussing what circumstances led to your accessing porn sites might start to ease the doubts in her mind. As my own mentor Amy Waterman said, take it step by step. No Big Talks. Just bit by bit and make sure you listen too!

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