Why cant my wife forgive me for watching porn in my past? I no longer do it sinc

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    dannyburdposted 8 years ago

    Why cant my wife forgive me for watching porn in my past? I no longer do it since we got married.

  2. Claudin_Dayo profile image59
    Claudin_Dayoposted 8 years ago

    she's still on the process of forgiving you smile) don't you worry she loves you it's just that she can't accept that fact yet as of now..

  3. sandun81 profile image60
    sandun81posted 8 years ago

    Just convince her that it's not abnormal behavior for unmarried person to watch porn. Almost 90% of people are doing that.

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    dreamforsureposted 8 years ago

    Because she thought that the porn stars are more appealing than her.

    How to solve the problem is just make her feel that she is the most appealing woman in the world

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    Longhunterposted 8 years ago

    You did this before you got married, haven't watched it since getting married, and she's still mad at you?

    It's her problem, not yours. She needs to get over it and move on. Sounds like she likes being mad for the sake of being mad or she's avoiding something she's ashamed of herself.

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    Effectivemediaposted 8 years ago

    Ah look this actually happened to me and if you click through my links you'll see it did. In my case, I did have the odd blimp (as most of us do) but the problem arises when you don't discuss it first. It's that old word communication. We are inundated with all sorts of websites only two clicks away and we wouldn't be human if we weren't curious. Zealots amongst you look away now :-)

    In my case, that one indiscretion led to a whole forest of mistrust. When I was trying to sort out my online business, she thought I was on dating and porn sites. A totally understandable reaction on reflection but I made the mistake of trying to be righteous and casting aspersions back towards her - that she was paranoid etc.

    Trench warfare is completely destructive. It's not easy but just discussing what circumstances led to your accessing porn sites might start to ease the doubts in her mind. As my own mentor Amy Waterman said, take it step by step. No Big Talks. Just bit by bit and make sure you listen too!

 
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