Does he want me anymore?

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   RcingWhiskeyGrlposted 14 years ago

   Does he want me anymore?
   
   Hes on his phone 24/7 work all the time, never makes time for me, never calls, i feel like im a burden when ever i ask a question or say something that sounds stupid to him, never cuddles after sex ,acts like its nothings, yells during important talks that mean something to me, laughs at me when he knows im wrong and makes me feel like a fool, promises me things and when i bring it up its like it never existed, and hasnt called me beautiful or make me feel like a real woman

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   tjhooperposted 14 years ago

   honestly, you need to tell him how you feel and if he doesn't like it, you will leave

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   RcingWhiskeyGrlposted 14 years ago

   its harder then that. I have done that already and it has got me nowhere. I have left and he come crawling back like a dog and says he will change. still nothing

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   zzronposted 14 years ago

   Sounds like you need to leave him for good and never take him back. You deserve much better. Don't waste anymore of your time or life on someone who treats you with such disrespect.
   
   Make your own happiness and move on til you find the right one who will respect, honer and love you the way a woman should be loved. You will find him if you take your time, be smart and look long enough.

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   briter123posted 14 years ago

   I wouldn't just stop talking to someone if we broke up thats a little harsh. I would just let him know that I'm over his rudeness and your leaving and if he doesn't change then thats what you do you find someone else and let go. life is toooo short to look at that as a tragedy hes just a guy live life like its ending tommorrow! hope I helped:-D

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   Sure, he probably does but it sounds like he can't give you what you're looking for, even though he's made promises in the past to improve. He may just not be a great match for you since he makes you feel belittled and leaves you unsatisfied as far as romance goes. Also, if he's yelling at you it's a form of domestic abuse which has the posibility to become worse over time if you decide to stay in the relationship.  It sounds like you're beginning to realise you're looking for a better relationship and not getting what you need from this man.

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   EmpressImaniposted 14 years ago

   Your question really pulled at my heart strings......Speaking as someone who started out years ago with what I thought was the love of my life but then turned into a worthless old fart, don't invest any more of your time seeking approval from someone who knows that they don't have to improve 'cause YOU will always be there. Time is too precious to waste and I know it sounds scary being on your own, specially as in my case 'the children' were always a good bargaining tool that I used to justify staying with him. Love is  a word that we use to tie ourselves up with to either a dream or a nightmare. He does want you but only on his terms, question is why on earth would you want this, would  you be happy knowing that any of your children are being treated like this..NO. You are a real woman and you are beautiful, if you are scared about leaving him make a list of your options, do something before this situation breaks you down and you get so depressed, you might do something shocking, I have lost a close sistren who couldn't take this type of treatment anymore.....sorry about this rant but I've just got off my soapbox and have put down my frying pan:) Bless

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   JayDee Sterlingposted 14 years ago

   Tough question, but an easy answer.  Old saying, "the only thing that works all the time is a maggot". Be glad that guy has no problem letting you know who he is. He makes it exceedingly clear that you are not the one for him.
   
   You need to focus on you telling you how fabulous you are and in being "FAB" you have to do "FAB":  Find Another Boy.

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