girls get deeply impressed by looks or personality, cause i am an average lookin

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  1. shrek619 profile image61
    shrek619posted 7 years ago

    girls get deeply impressed by looks or personality, cause i am an average looking dude and ...

    girls seem to like me because of my personality.As far as my experience goes, looks don't matter as long as you can get to the girl very closely and deeply (yes its slow process)...or is there something else like good-looking dudes always have the edge ?

  2. shrek619 profile image61
    shrek619posted 7 years ago

    @world of the wise
    i think that is a personal opinion.I know confidence is a huge factor. I think the confidence you gained after earning more draws more girls towards you or...

  3. Karonher profile image72
    Karonherposted 7 years ago

    They will decide of you are only average. They may place you higher than that.

  4. shynsly profile image57
    shynslyposted 7 years ago

    Looks alone will spark an initial attraction, but ultimately will only get you the girl who herself, only has her looks to offer. Money will get you the girl that's only after your money. If you want a girl worth keeping around, then you're on the right track with personality.

    The right car doesn't hurt, either. Doesn't have to be expensive or flashy, as long as it's cool. Might sound trivial, but there's something to be said for a guy that can keep an older car looking and running good.

  5. iam_jayme profile image55
    iam_jaymeposted 7 years ago

    I'd say, we girls do get impressed by looks.   Personally, when i get to know a guy, its the guy's smarts, personality as a whole, hygiene, and how he presents himself to people would have a deeper impression on me rather than just looks.  With a bunch of positive personality traits, it might not be important if a guy is not that good looking, but hey, it wouldn't hurt if he's cute. But looks are just not enough.  It'd be like having to choose between a beautifully made and ornate but tasteless fondant cake or a simple fruitcake that tastes like heaven.

  6. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 7 years ago

    No good looking guy will have the edge over you if you have a great personality and treat girls nicely.  You do also need to have sexual attraction, but as your experience has shown you looks don't matter so much.

  7. profile image45
    robz101posted 7 years ago

    to be honestly with you looks matter, but personality matters as well, maybe more than looks but, if you good looking its easier to attract a women, it just take longer to attract a women with your personality, a man that is good looking a women is instantly attracted to him so its easier to go on a date , easier to get her into bed etc.. but with personality it just takes longer because the women is not instantly attracted to you, therefore you have to make her laugh,  just have fun with but  be careful so you don't go into the friends zone.

  8. The Gramicore profile image59
    The Gramicoreposted 7 years ago

    Most of the times, it's the good looks that FIRST capture the attention of the woman (as society has stereotyped that "good looks = good EVERYTHING" which is not USUALLY the case) but it's the personality of the guy that really makes her like him.

    Attitude/ character are preferred. The guy having a hot body with an awesome face is just a bonus.


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