How Do Ugly Guys Get Gorgeous Girlfriends?

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  1. ngureco profile image79
    ngurecoposted 15 years ago

    How Do Ugly Guys Get Gorgeous Girlfriends?

  2. profile image0
    Lady_Eposted 15 years ago

    They turn on the Charm and become Smooth Operators....   saying all the right sweet nothings and if they're loaded, well.... all the Gorgeous girls would be falling at their feet.

    Also if an Average looking Guy (don't like to use Ugly) has any of the traits listed below, he will definitely "pull" as we say in the UK.

    1) has a very nice dress sense.
    2) Smells lovely. (nice perfume/aftershave)
    3) Wikid sense of Humour
    4) Caring and sensitive
    5) Good Body
    etc. etc.  for Some Gorgeous G/f's this makes up for him looking Average.

    Finally, there are some ladies who don't look on the outward appearance. They look at the person inside and fall in love.  Can't believe I've written so much, maybe I should write a Hub. lol.

  3. Lisa HW profile image63
    Lisa HWposted 15 years ago

    It may be because women aren't always as concerned about appearances as many men are.  It may also be that there is more help (make-up, hair, clothes, etc.) for women with average looks to "turn themselves" into women who appear "gorgeous".  As a result, it could appear that there are more very attractive women than men; and a lot of women who look "gorgeous" may really just have good make-up, hair, and clothes.

  4. profile image56
    Calliope Jonesposted 15 years ago

    In my humble opinion, the way to turn anyone's head is the same no matter how you look.

    Confidence is a large attractor.  That is the main reason so-called "Lookers" get the people they are attracted to at a glance, because they have confidence.

    Now, don't mistake a cock-sure and vanity for confidence.  Real confidence doesn't brag.

    After that, a good sense of humor will win almost every time.

    If you're just looking for someone who looks good, you need to readjust your priorities.  In my humble opinion.


    -Calliope Jones

  5. cindyvine profile image68
    cindyvineposted 15 years ago

    Ugly guys are not full of themselves, don't turn all the conversations to them, and spend every available minute trying to be the centre of attention.  Therefore, they have the time to dote on the gorgeous girls and give them the attention that they crave, and their ugly mug doesn't detract from the girl's beauty.  Also, people will admire the gorgeous girl for not being shallow and only going after a guy for his looks.  The gorgeous girls wins every time in these situations.

  6. how many kids?! profile image60
    how many kids?!posted 14 years ago

    My husband asks me this from time to time.  He's good looking, but he doesn't think so, he's mostly bald.  However, I still get hit on.  (which I hate)
    Anyway, I told him he got me because he was nice to me.  We girls are not made the same way as you guys.  We look for a guy who we can belong to.  And we want to know that after we belong to him that he will take good care of us.  We gals sell ourselves short so much of the time.  Sexy is a bait that can get a man quick because of how men are made up, but if you want a man who will care for you, use a better bait.  You won't get every fish, but you will get a good one if you dress down and relax.  If you are a guy, go after a gal who is just being herself.  Most often she is not aware of her looks, and she will be very attracted to you if you show her you are interested in her as a person and not as a sex toy.

  7. maxximise profile image61
    maxximiseposted 14 years ago

    This is a shocking facts that handsome guys can be beaten by ugly guys or average looking guy. There are several factors girl like these type of man because this man inner value is not based on looks but rather their social communication.

    This type of guys usually learned how to please women using the art of sentences or seduction through giving a warm, pleasant, fatherly smile. The sincere type that knocks the heart of the girl and would let a girl know that she is safe!

    If you see that the plus point of these guys that they can dressed totally nice and trendy and it creates a uniqueness as the girl will see that these guys care enough about themselves.

    This indicate that a guy who can take care of themselves can take of their girls pretty well

  8. profile image0
    KStyleposted 14 years ago

    first thing to remember is beauty is only skin deep. A gorgeous girl could turn out to be cornflakes on the inside.
    what you are probably looking for is the whole picture, which one can only find through self discovery, self worth and self respect.  "you attract what you've become"  start there and then look around. 
    All the best,

  9. jeffreyhouser profile image58
    jeffreyhouserposted 14 years ago


  10. MichaelKent profile image61
    MichaelKentposted 14 years ago

    I m ugly and women like me cause I provide security to the relationship.

  11. Dr Will 911 profile image61
    Dr Will 911posted 14 years ago

    They play a numbers game that works because it is governed by the law of inevitability

    For more of an explaination on how this works, see my hub: Finding Real Love Finally.

  12. dcrisan profile image60
    dcrisanposted 14 years ago

    My guess is that Pretty women are use to dating good looking men, probably because its more of a stereotype to see two good looking people together, but when you actually meet someone thats got a great personality and you just go crazy for them , you dont mind what they look like. And guys that arent gorgeous to look at usually have better communication skills than good looking guys , because theyve had good looks their whole life, that they dont try any harder than they have to.

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    reeltaulkposted 14 years ago

    Hmmm.......if I honestly answer this one "women" definitely  wont be happy, so I'll leave it alone.  All I can say is, go figure, it's a "woman" at work!

  14. KylerDurr profile image58
    KylerDurrposted 14 years ago

    There is one thing about an unattractive mate which I find very enticing. And it is simply security.
       When you date an attractive man who is so dreamy he makes you melt, you will find yourself comparing yourself, thinking perhaps you aren't good enough and he thinks you are the "not so attractive one". You are forced to maintain perfection so as to compete, you tell yourself. But with a man who looks at you like an angel whether you have makeup or not, there is a calm comfort there.
    And although you may find you are missing out genetically, or your girlfriends wont be awe struck by some stud you bring to reunion. You know you have someone to worship you.
      Now perhaps to some this is silly, and simply being the center of attention in the household isn't enough to some, but there is another side that some may overlook.
      We have all heard the expression, "They were so pretty, until they opened their mouth.." and I am here to tell you, looks aren't everything. Often men with amazing looks, are so conceded, and they expect to be spoiled so much, that they become quite ugly to us.. to a gorgeous woman, they are the ones, that want to be spoiled.
      Lets just say, two pretties, can be pretty ugly.
    Gorgeous women like to be taken care of and appreciated, and sometimes, ugly guys are just more worth it!
    And often times, they are the ones with real personality anyway, because they didn't have a hunky face to hide their demons behind.

  15. bearclawmedia profile image60
    bearclawmediaposted 14 years ago

    Honesty, sensitivity, kindness, charity. What's gorgeous anyway. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Do you mean cat walk model looks or do you mean  women who have a gorgeous disposition, a kind heart, one that is loving and always tries hard to be decent, a person with ethics and high moral standards?

    Do you mean guys that look like a fence post, fat guys, guys with bad eyes and big glasses, is Lyle Lovett your poster child or is it Albert Einstein. Pretty lame question.

  16. profile image56
    ThePeeDeeWildcatposted 14 years ago

    I don't know. I'm still trying to figure it out myself.

  17. terced ojos profile image59
    terced ojosposted 14 years ago

    I've only ever seen Hot Women with Ugly Guys who had tons of money. By and large the Ugly Guy Hot Girl thing is a myth.

  18. Alayne Fenasci profile image61
    Alayne Fenasciposted 14 years ago

    I'd like to repeat part of another answer. We want someone we can belong to, someone we can trust to take care of us. Whatever he looks like to begin with, he can suddenly appear very different if he is That Guy. The best catch is the guy who lights up when he sees his woman. If you want to insist on appearances, look for that.

    A particularly attractive girl sometimes has a harder time arriving at this realization because she has so many "Prince Charming" style frogs offering to kiss her. If she gets her head about her, she'll eventually end up with a guy who wants to protect her from those previous idiots. He's not likely to have been one of them.

  19. H P Roychoudhury profile image43
    H P Roychoudhuryposted 14 years ago

    Ugly guy gets Gorgeous girl friend if there is supreme pleasure of sexual appetite apart from all other things.

  20. Ralph Deeds profile image64
    Ralph Deedsposted 14 years ago

    How to spot a rich guy.

  21. maheshpatwal profile image63
    maheshpatwalposted 14 years ago

    Ugly guys dont get gorgeous chick their money get them beautiful babes.....................

    Honey Talks Money...........

  22. LiamAnderson profile image61
    LiamAndersonposted 14 years ago


    It's one thing to look at someone and say "S/he looks nice." It's another thing to live with them.

    It works both ways, I've also seen some men with dreadful looking wives and I ask myself "What does he see in her?"

    Once you get into a long term relationship and you see the same person every day, a person's sense of humour and reliability become a lot more important than what they look like.

    What might be an interesting discussion is if the same phenomenon exists among the gay and lesbian community as well as among heterosexuals. I did have a colleague who was gay, but right now I can't really ask him that.

    That's my 2 cents

  23. Springboard profile image82
    Springboardposted 14 years ago

    At the end of the day everything has to do with inner beauty. That old saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder is absolutely true. Beauty comes not from what's on the outside, but rather from qualities and attributes that radiate outwardly from the inside.

    If outward looks alone were the answer, there'd be no divorce in Hollywood.

  24. Lifeallstar1 profile image60
    Lifeallstar1posted 13 years ago

    Usually they are great people, with awesome personalities, talented, treats them great, can make them laugh, great listeners, and are a lot of fun. Some woman are gold diggers and it's because they have a ton of money. Not so cool! :-)

  25. profile image0
    Rosemary Banksposted 13 years ago

    I use to think the same thing when I was much younger but now I think it's all about the chemistry between the two.

  26. mache de la torre profile image59
    mache de la torreposted 13 years ago

    They must have the looks, the money and the brains

  27. anthonyhopkin profile image61
    anthonyhopkinposted 13 years ago

    so ... u guys mean that all the ugly guys are good but not the guys who are fair looking.. it doesn't make sense.. as a guy even i cant able to answer to this question.. the weird thing which makes me to answer this question is bcoz the answer which you guys gave.... but the saddest part is ... i have seen lot of guys  with beautiful girlfriends .. pls come out with a better answer .. pls .. smile smile  i am expecting it from girls...  ...                                                                                                       

    with sadness(no girlfriend)
    Anthony.... sad

  28. nifty@50 profile image69
    nifty@50posted 13 years ago

    In Donald Trump's case, carry plenty of jack ($$$$$). Just the same way that more alcohol makes females look more attractive to males, money makes males look a whole lot more attractive to females. Check out the ugly dudes on Millionaire Match Maker!

  29. C.V.Rajan profile image59
    C.V.Rajanposted 13 years ago

    That truly proves women are poor decision makers!

  30. profile image0
    Edliraposted 13 years ago

    Through wits, manners, consideration, loyalty, humour and good listening skills and..... if none opf this works... money :-)!

  31. Curtis Aron profile image69
    Curtis Aronposted 13 years ago

    Money, money, money!  OK, that may be one factor.  I really don't believe that every good looking woman is so superficial that she will choose a man based only on looks or money.  Many women choose a partner based on other factors such as personality or sense of humor.

  32. Ashantina profile image60
    Ashantinaposted 13 years ago

    Not always.
    But the ones who do, are real. And they make their beautiful girlfriends feel like a real woman, as opposed to just 'arm candy'.
    Full of %&!t guys could learn a thing or two from them..

  33. profile image0
    Helpful Hannaposted 13 years ago

    Someone's confidence, morals, and how they treat you determine how attractive they are.  Good looks can only get you so far.

  34. Liv Senstad profile image61
    Liv Senstadposted 13 years ago

    I am not sure if you here think about an ugly guy to look at or somebody behaving ugly. 
    It is always hard to tell what in a person you are attracted to. But I am sure most people are attracted to what is good, gentle, caring and loving. I would say that the movie "Beauty and the beast" says a lot about this topic! smile It is not what you see- -it is what you feel and experience together with a person.

  35. badegg profile image79
    badeggposted 13 years ago

    They are usually smooth talkers or have a boat load of money. But then, there are the guys with a good heart and the girls that aren't gold diggers that genuinely love them.

  36. beth811 profile image77
    beth811posted 13 years ago

    They compensate their being ugly to their sense of humour and physique... how much more if they are rich!

  37. nightwork4 profile image61
    nightwork4posted 13 years ago

    confidence and class. i'm not exactly handsome(not even close) but my wife is gorgeous. most women i've dated have been good looking and my buds always say it sure isn't my looks that get them.

  38. Scozzo_Scotty profile image61
    Scozzo_Scottyposted 13 years ago

    Woah, cant beleive no one used the,

    Hey, Does this smell like Rohypnol to you?

    Great Question with great answers.

  39. BenWritings profile image64
    BenWritingsposted 13 years ago

    Very carefully is the answer.

    Very carefully.

    Or, by possessing $$$, fame, or some form of great talent

    but mostly $$$ lol

  40. profile image0
    anylposted 13 years ago

    Because ugly guys can speak influential so they have gorgeous gf

  41. Scott_Grigg profile image39
    Scott_Griggposted 13 years ago

    My guess is that answer will be the same as many have said...have a lot of money. Women seem more attracted to that in many cases than anything else, LOL.

  42. LeisureLife profile image68
    LeisureLifeposted 13 years ago

    Pimping doesn't have anything to do with looks.

  43. craftybegonia profile image59
    craftybegoniaposted 13 years ago

    I have never had an ugly boyfriend, BUT, a woman that is worth her weight in womanhood prefers a man who will treat her with class than a jerk any day. Sometimes, good-looking guys think too much of themselves to be true gentlemen, and men who don't have the looks make up for them with attentiveness that women really do appreciate!

  44. stclairjack profile image77
    stclairjackposted 13 years ago

    they learn to play guitar,..... tommy lee?????,.. i know, he's a drummer but please, same logic applies!

  45. The Jet profile image66
    The Jetposted 13 years ago

    If it's not money or a certain appendage size, then it's confidence -- which is always cool. I know I dig confident girls.

  46. F.B. Spannigan profile image59
    F.B. Spanniganposted 13 years ago


  47. d_r_white profile image54
    d_r_whiteposted 13 years ago

    Although  I'm still trying to figure out women (and probably will be for a lifetime)  I would guess :

    1) Money

    2) They're funny

  48. DonDWest profile image70
    DonDWestposted 13 years ago

    Money, it's all about money. Nothing more, nothing less.

  49. tlynn6420 profile image60
    tlynn6420posted 13 years ago

    Most women are for great personalities in their partners, if they happen to be attractive then that's a great plus!

  50. RealTruth profile image53
    RealTruthposted 13 years ago

    I have experience of ugly people especially in work environment where i can observe the action for a longer first when i see them i think they are average people but as times goes by seeing their everyday routine they seems to be both ugly inside and outside.....First they pretend be to something they are not....appear to look smarter and serious than others....look at a girls in a seductive wifey manner and establish before they can get a glimpse of the perso...Full of negative energy and don't follow the rules of the system and always pleasure seeking...

    I think even Good looking person as well as ugly people are trouble both are highly conscious of themselves and annoying..


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