Would you go for personality or looks in a love relationship? Why?

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   Anjiliposted 13 years ago

   Would you go for personality or looks in a love relationship? Why?

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   freecampingaussieposted 13 years ago

   A fun cheeky friendly personality wins every time . Great if they have both like my husband but looks can fade - personality stays !
   Often as well a good looking person can be vain & be too fussy etc .

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      Anjiliposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I'll try to be funny, cheeky and friendly most of the time if this is so.

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   Starmom41posted 13 years ago

   neither.  many years ago, a friend commented that relationships only work if both people share the same values, and I agree with her that it's the most important point.  personality, looks, etc., are not nearly as important as knowing the diff between right & wrong, basic integrity, morality, etc.

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   vnsatakopanposted 13 years ago

   The majority of women go for personality as they look for security and lasting relationships while the reverse is true for men. Men go for the looks and of course suffer later on.

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      Anjiliposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Talk of anything in a skirt;)

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   ackman1465posted 13 years ago

   Actually, when I'm looking for a lady to spend time with.... THESE are the attributes that I look for (in this order):
   
   1.  Large bank account balance,
   2.  Hot looks,
   3.  Energetic and easy-going personality, along with:
   4.  Not too strong on the morals....

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      Anjiliposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      That sounds like a choice that is ready for fun and not for keeps. I think morals might come in handy lest you get what you never expected:)

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   lburmasterposted 13 years ago

   Personality. Looks fade, but the individuals personality will always remain.

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   duffsmomposted 13 years ago

   A nice combination of both would be nice but frankly personality wins out if I have to choose.  Having a handsome man would be little fun if he has nasty disposition or no sense of humor.

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   Lot Rilleraposted 13 years ago

   for me  it doesn't matter how He looks, what matters most is I love him and He loves me too!

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   landscapeartistposted 13 years ago

   I go for the personality.  Looks can be decieving and although I really hate to admit it, so can personality.  Someone can be so nice and caring when they are around their friends or acquaintances, and then cruel and shallow when they are with their spouse/significant other. 
   My first husband used to smack me around but no one knew he did that because he was such a good actor when they were around.
   I still say personality, but always look in their eyes because the eyes are the window to the soul.  It gives away what they try to hide.

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      Anjiliposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Men can be that deceptive?

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