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Would you rather forgive or walk away?

  1. FaithDream profile image82
    FaithDreamposted 7 years ago

    Would you rather forgive or walk away?

  2. Stina Caxe profile image88
    Stina Caxeposted 7 years ago

    I try to forgive people, but only once.  I usually end up regretting it and wishing I would have walked away.

    Unfortunately my nice nature prevents me from learning my lesson!

  3. Sarah Masson profile image69
    Sarah Massonposted 7 years ago

    I've always been a very forgiving person and I have been walked all over. Recently I walked away and have decided that it was the right thing to do. It depends on the situation really and how people have treated you.

  4. Alya rose profile image58
    Alya roseposted 7 years ago

    It can change depending on the situation.But I usually walk away,I'm not much for forgivness

  5. guy1973 profile image61
    guy1973posted 7 years ago

    thats an interesting question, forgiveness is something that doesn't come easy to many people, its not always easy, but no matter how tough it is you have to let go and walk away. I had trouble with this, for many years i was angry with a person that was so close to my heart, and swore that i will hurt that person. then one day i felt that this had a hold on me, and was affecting me, so i said a prayer and forgave, it was such a relief, In two day after that strange event i met that person, and he made the first move for reconcilation and ask me to forgive him, from then on we have had a good relationship.

  6. Claudin_Dayo profile image60
    Claudin_Dayoposted 7 years ago

    I'd walk away if at the moment I'm not really ready to forgive smile
    to forgive is not like giving away something, it takes time for the process to be completed

  7. mintinfo profile image74
    mintinfoposted 7 years ago

    Depends on the circumstance. If I recognize that someone is malicious in their intentions then I would walk away. No need to have their bad karma follow me through any other life.

  8. FaithDream profile image82
    FaithDreamposted 7 years ago

    Some great comments here.

    Personally, I believe to walk away is the easy way. It is much harder to forgive someone, but I do think every situation is different, and sometimes walking away is the only way.

    We are not meant to be doormats or to be taken advantage of, however I believe you can forgive someone, while you walk away.

  9. duffsmom profile image58
    duffsmomposted 7 years ago

    This is an interesting question because so much depends on the situation.  Was it infidelity, was it a loan not repaid--each situation is different and holds different weight.  But, having said that, generally speaking, I think it is better for our hearts to forgive but not forget--because if we forget, it could happen again.

    Say, in a situation of infidelity, eventually you can forgive, but it can be done while walking away--one does not have to stay and act as if it never happened.  Forgive for your own heart, but walk away for your own sanity and well-being.  One is not mutually exclusive of the other.

  10. ImChemist profile image58
    ImChemistposted 7 years ago

    i can easy forgive ! 1st time i forgive 2nd time i forgive 3rd time i forgive , after that no way because that person not deserve my forgiveness !! ( he lost all chances )

  11. Ciminder profile image57
    Ciminderposted 7 years ago

    In most circumstances, I feel that everyone deserves the opportunity to make things right.  At the same time, I feel that it is possible to forgive AND walk away.  In a past relationship, my significant other cheated on me a couple times, and while I can honestly say I have forgiven him and we have remained cordial and stayed in touch, I have moved on to bigger and better things in terms of romantic relationships.