How to trust after being by past relationships
Guys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?
first of all...thanks for giving me the chance to answer your question.....Without knowing all the details of your past relationships...let me say that you are not alone in being hurt in the past. When you get out of a bad relationship after being hurt. ...I would suggest giving yourself some "alone" time to think about the type of man you chose and what you really want in a relationship. Once you know what you want in a relationship, you can go forward in dating again. As far as the trust issue, it will take time for you to trust men. You really need to take your time and really pick a man for his character and not just his looks or how much money he has.
Communication with your mate is critical and dont rush into having sex too soon. Let your mate know that you have trust issues and that you need to know you can trust him..Talk to your mate and ask questions like what kind of women do u like? Do you want to get married? Can you be loyal to one woman? If you get the wrong answers or he is not ready to settle down and be devoted to you..then dont go any further with the relationship...because you probably will get hurt. ..and the trust issue you are dealing with will get worst,everytime you get hurt. remember not all men are the same and there is a good man out there for you.
Hopefully this is helpful to you, please feel free to email me with any questions, that you may still have. ..love and respect yourself and don't settle for a man who is just playing the field.
Good luck to you..sx
by sx1889 7 years ago
How do I trust after being hurt in past relationshipsGuys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?
by sx1889 7 years ago
I've been hurt by men in the past, so how do I trust my new boyfriend after other men have hurt me?My boyfriend tells me "that either I trust him or I don't"!! Is it that easy after other men have hurt me in past relationships? How do I learn to trust a man again?
by ShanteD 4 months ago
Can you really have a relationship with someone you don't trust.You can love them and want your relationship to work but if you don't trust them can it? Do you give it time and hope for the best?
by mace729 8 years ago
does any one realy get overbeing hurt by there partners?
by rick023 7 years ago
I have always been the type of guy that just goes with the flow of things and believes that things in life should just evolve naturally. For example, I struggle with formal aspects of relationships and just prefer to let things happen as they do and feel that if things are good they will...
by Michelle 7 years ago
Have you told your partner about all of your past relationships?
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