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Love, hate, let them go or wait ?????????

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    haruhi22posted 7 years ago

    Love, hate, let them go or wait ?????????

    it hurts so much to stay away from the person we love so so much sad, yet when they themselves wanna go away from us, what else can we do except let them go( though i did a lot of begging, crying, pleading... asking for 1 last chance), now i've let him go,been more than 1 month, maybe he's happy or not, but i'm definitely so unhappy and sad without him, how do we fight for the 1 we love if we cant even see, talk and text them, i dont even see him at all...Why do we fall in love so intensely, that we end up completely broken when they leave us :'(

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    reeltaulkposted 7 years ago

    I recently saw a movie where the character asked another character, why don't you let anyone in why is it you are so distant?  The character responded and said, it's because when moments like this no longer exist it becomes Evil!   So deep and so true.  I think sometimes from experience, or if you're open to learning from others experiences you just have to make good choices.  This may be unheard of or even sound impossible, but at some point you have to be able to see things for what it is and remove yourself from it to avoid such outcomes.  So that you will not hurt an individual or they might not hurt you.  There is no need to keep something going that will end up disastrous.  Either party never will know what it is to miss that individual until their gone but this comes with the territory when you do not understand what it is to respect, appreciate as well as what it is to be thankful for what you have.  Everyone is a work in progress but in order to be productively efficient you must work on yourself, so that you won't end up with the short end of the stick, because you'll be more informed and discipline in your decision making and your thinking.

    Vonda G. Nelson

  3. kamran210 profile image70
    kamran210posted 7 years ago

    love...is not about getting someone ..the feeling of love remains same it doesn't depend on the distance.....sad

  4. hannahxdee profile image82
    hannahxdeeposted 7 years ago

    Honestly, I say let them go. If it's been more than a month and you haven't spoken to him..you can do it. I know it seems as though a huge part of you is missing, but take it from me--a person who lost their mother at age 11 and an extremely serious boyfriend--time will heal all of these feelings and you will be a stronger person in the end. And if you and this guy are meant to be together, it will happen. Just try to work on becoming your own person for now.

  5. BL Tween profile image61
    BL Tweenposted 7 years ago

    You may need  supernatural help. There is a God who loves you. He is the only one I know who can really heal a broken heart. People don’t always do the right thing, nor say the right thing. I will tell you that I do not know all the answers, but He does. You could try talking to Him. He is always available even right now.
    The best thing about talking to Him is He will never tell another person what you say. Be truthful because He already knows everything. He is a gentleman and does not go where He is not invited. He will not make you do anything if you don’t want to. If you talk to Him and ask  Him to help you, I know He will, even if we don’t deserve His help, He helps us not because we deserve it but because that is the awesome awesome  God He is.
    A real God, in this real world, who really helps us. PTL

    Luke 11:9
    And I say unto you, Ask, . . .

  6. New 2011 Mom profile image60
    New 2011 Momposted 6 years ago

    Well I have been around the block with different relationships and I have only had 2 people try to, or have, come back to me and to be honest I'm happy that most never did. After awhile the hurt goes away, and maybe something's just aren't meant to be. Go out and have fun, if he comes to your mind just let it go. He left for a reason and maybe he will realize it was a stupid move, and even if he doesn't well it's his lose not yours. Make the best of it, flirt with other people, go to parties, clubs, anything at all and live your life. Sometimes relationships bring you down and you can't do what you want to, so why not live it up now before you do get locked down?