How long does it take to be able to move on from a divorce, especially when the ex already has?
Especially when the new partner is your cousin?
that is an impossible question to answer. there are too many veriables and each person is different.
There is no specific time frame. It all depends on you as a person. I just answered this question last week in my e-zine. I am going to give the exact steps.
Don’t be afraid to be emotional. There is none thing wrong with crying. Crying is cleansing for the soul. A good cry will make you feel better. However don’t let your emotions get the best of you where you can’t function properly.
Remember the good times. Every relationship may have its ups and downs but always remember the good times. The good times that you guys shared can’t be replaced.
Forgive. Regardless of who created the problems in the relationship, you must forgive him and also forgive yourself. If you don’t forgive, your life will be controlled by your previous relationship and you may never move on or attract the amount of love you are seeking.
Let go. As women I have noticed that we always try to control everything. However, there are some things that you can’t control. Let it go.
Take it as a lesson learned. Take time to reflect over your relationship and figure out what you learned about being in a relationship and what did you learn about yourself. Take the lessons you learned and grow from them.
Take time to heal. There is a saying, “Time heals all wounds.” Take time to let your heart heal and make sure that you spend it doing things you really enjoy and surround yourself with loved ones.
If you need more help in moving forward and getting over your ex, I would love to help you. You can visit my site www.guidingu2success.com and get more information.
The Mr. Right Attraction Mentor
by Cloverleaf6 years ago
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