How to be a good lover?

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  1. djrana0 profile image51
    djrana0posted 9 years ago

    Anyone know how to be a good lover?Share with me your all fellings.I want to be a good lover.

    1. Daniel Carter profile image75
      Daniel Carterposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Be what you look for. Become the lover you seek to find.

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    ralwusposted 9 years ago

    Oh no, I have hubs on that one. Not here, and you look mighty young. LOL

    1. djrana0 profile image51
      djrana0posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      ralwus you are right.I am very young boy.My age is just 17.Ok i will see your hub.Thanks for telling.

      1. Pearldiver profile image80
        Pearldiverposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        OMG... That's not young! I was married at that age.... snapped up in my prime yikes  I must have been a good lover lol

        But Honestly.... You MUST Start when you are 16. Whoops... too late yikes

        1. djrana0 profile image51
          djrana0posted 9 years agoin reply to this

          not too late.Cause now my age is 17 but when i fall in love my age was only 14.So.........But why you married at very young age?

          1. Pearldiver profile image80
            Pearldiverposted 9 years agoin reply to this

            It had alot to do with Shotguns! lol

      2. Dale Mazurek profile image69
        Dale Mazurekposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        Well the first mistake you made was telling us your age.  Seems like you will have lots of time to become a good lover.

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years ago

    well being a good lover is different things for different people.... so just try to find out what makes your partner happy and go for it........

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    SalesScoopposted 9 years ago

    Being a good lover is leaving the porch light on for her if you get home from your date before she gets home from hers.

    Ha Ha

  5. andromida profile image59
    andromidaposted 9 years ago

    You need to have a very good understanding of your partner's psychology.

  6. I*n*v*i*c*t*u*s profile image61
    I*n*v*i*c*t*u*sposted 9 years ago

    practice...practice...practice... with a big splash of experimenting! smile

  7. Davinagirl3 profile image59
    Davinagirl3posted 9 years ago

    If you are a kind, compassionate, and giving person, you will be a good lover.  It takes practice. Listen to your partner's needs and you will do fine.

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    ralwusposted 9 years ago

    Well he is in for a whole lot of fun isn't he? Good luck to ya kid. Protect that wee man now.

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    ralwusposted 9 years ago

    djrana, you are too young to be here. So we'll be seeing you after you turn 18. Maddy is on to you now, I'm sure.

    1. djrana0 profile image51
      djrana0posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      i am young.But you don't know that this is my brother account.My brother don't use this account because he don't like online business and don't like writing.But i like online business and like writing.So that i use this account.

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    ralwusposted 9 years ago

    Just like my granny back in Kentucky.

  11. wychic profile image87
    wychicposted 9 years ago

    Personally, I think the key is to always think about your partner before yourself. I have been with a very selfish person who was a horrible lover (both in bed and out) and who made both our lives miserable because he felt the need to control me and make me into the person he thought I should be. The man I am with now is extremely thoughtful and giving, he pays attention to so many little details of my life that even I didn't realize, and has proven to be a most excellent lover (again, both in bed and out).

    If you want something to REALLY last you have to be willing to put your partner over yourself, but you also need someone who does the same in return. One selfish person in a relationship can and usually will ruin the whole thing.

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    Pandemic Pressposted 9 years ago

    I very much agree with you, wychic. I think if you're concerned about being a "good lover" you're probably already on the right track! (As opposed to if you had asked how to be good at f@!king, in which case I'd have concerns). If you want to be a good lover, and you listen to your partner's needs, then you WILL be a good lover.

    Contrary to the method promoted by hollywood, which involves going out and banging yourself some "hood-rats" before you go after someone you actually like, I think being in an actual loving relationship is much better for improving your skills in bed. Sure it can become "routine" with each partner settling for what they're getting (which I think is horrible) but if you actually want to try to improve, it's best to have someone who you're comfortable with, and will have the patience to help you!

    I've found that generally the more sex you have with your partner the better it gets, as you become more comfortable with each other's bodies. Also, I think that simply loving the person you're sleeping with adds a quality all on it's own (but then again, I'm an idealist)

    And again this has given me an idea for another hub! I'm starting to like these forums smile



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