Why love perishes after marriage?

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   anupmaposted 13 years ago

   Why love perishes after marriage?
   
   In love marriage, marriages sometimes break? Why...? Does love end or we understand the true character of our partner?

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   INDIAGUIDEposted 13 years ago

   The second one is true. We understand the true character of our partner. But Here the true love starts. My hub http://indiaguide.hubpages.com/hub/FOUR … Y-MARRIAGE will help you to understand this. But Love do not ends It subsides in some internal corner.

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   showurightposted 13 years ago

   1. People's expectations of marriage are different and not communicated from the beginning
   2. They stop doing the things they did when they were dating. The everyday normalcies take priority (ex. work and kids)
   3. Some people try to change the other because they're married now- "you don't do that anymore because you're married"
   4. People grow apart
   5. Financial
   6. Communication

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   dashingscorpioposted 13 years ago

   Most people don't take the time to do some serious introspective thinking about what they want in a mate for life before getting involved with someone. Marriage is a choice. If we are not happy with our spouse it means we aren't happy with the "choice" we made.
   
   The majority of people aren't willing to invest the amount of time it takes to truly get to know someone.  They become engaged while they are still in the "infatuation phase" of their relationship. From there on it's like a snow ball rolling down hill towards the wedding day. Even if one or both are secretly having some doubts they attribute it to having "cold feet" and press on. After all the pomp and circumstance the dust settles and they realize they made a mistake.
   They now see they didn't discuss many things which were important to each of them.

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