Have you ever looked at your 'Ex' and thought - was I drunk the entire relationship?
Well, I know I wasn't drunk all that time because I am not a drinker, but I do look back at the exes I sometimes see and wonder what I was thinking. I am no longer attracted to them, of course, and I cannot see how I ever was. I do not know why I put up with the things they did. Even if I was single, I would not date them now.
Lol... that's funny. I always ask myself, "what was I thinking??"
If I would think like that then I will regret a lot more. As it will tell me how stupid I am that I am regretting over a thing that I once wanted, 'the most in my life'. I think we should not think like it. A good relation gives us a companion, a bad relations gives us a lesson. We should go along with it.
Thought it's never been a physical thing for me. It was more the behaviors that I accepted from her.. Being a bitch so to speak. Oh well lesson learned.
Haha! Yeah, I was drunk when we met. He stayed drunk and I sobered up 5 years later. Now I think, "what did I ever see in him?" Best thing, though, he served time for a federal offense and all our friends we had in common are now my friends---not that I care either way---our split was about 25 years ago. The crime occured in the last five.
I think it's important to remember that your ex turned into during and after the relationship ended, has nothing to do with you as a person. Furthermore, its not a relection of your more important decision capabilities.
this is too funny. i must have this conversation at least once a night when friends see there ex's out LOL. is it rude to say "i told you so" to your friend as a response??
I'm only responding to tell you that your question is "laugh your ass off" funny!
LOL .... Yes i have thought this. I look at them and think did i really spend all them years with you!!
I must of been in a very bad place at the time with some of my ex's i tell ya. There is only one ex i do not think this about. x
Yes I've thought something similar to that. Just the "What was I thinking" type throughts when I've seen an ex.
My question to myself is "What did I ever see in him?" Sometimes I just kind of stare at him when he is talking to me and try to see even a glimpse of whatever might have made me think that he was "the one". I only wish I could blame alcohol...
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