Why nowdays love relation bondings are not strong

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  1. Anit Kr Ghosh profile image55
    Anit Kr Ghoshposted 4 years ago

    Why nowdays love relation bondings are not strong

    Now  the love relations  are not capable to stay for long and mostly its end up in maximum 2-3 years. People cannot value the heart.

  2. pippap profile image83
    pippapposted 4 years ago

    People today are more interested in "what's in for them" rather than striving for more fulfilling relationships with the people around them.  Our emphasis is on the bright, shiny bits of sparkle that show we are affluent instead of filling our lives with meaningful conversation, loving relationships that do not emphasize the material or seeking spiritual fulfillment.

    1. Anit Kr Ghosh profile image55
      Anit Kr Ghoshposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      U r at one part u r right but there is other side of d coin also... u said no spiritual fulfillment bt y the spiritual fulfillment is lacking? Devoted couple deffinately get d spiritual fulfillment. I dnt feel a person cn live without ne kind of love

  3. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    In all honesty most of us (fail our way to success) when it comes to relationships. If this were not true we'd all be married to our high school sweethearts!
    The first few relationships most people enter into are before they themselves have figured who they are let alone what they want and need in mate.  It's the equivalent of going shopping without a list. We pretty much let "impulsive connections" and "happenstance" dictate our relationship choices.
    Some people are in love with "falling in love". They practice "serial monogamy" meaning they go from one committed relationship to another. They hate falling into a routine. Two years is a lifetime!
    The more options one has the less crap they're willing to put up with! We also have a mentality today of "we can always do better".
    Online dating for instance is almost equivalent to shopping. One can sit in the privacy of their home, enjoy a glass of wine, and scroll down hundreds if not thousands of profiles to pick and choose people the way one does furniture. Naturally if you do enter into a relationship that doesn't work out you can easily "re-activate" your online account and you'll have new prospects in no time. For those who only are looking for "intimate encounters" there are (hookup apps) and sites to find people in your area ready and willing.
    Overall I believe having options in life is a good thing for the most part. However if one is not careful they might make a fast decision they will later regret. You don't want to breakup with a good person over something trivial. Sometimes it's best to step back and look at a situation to determine whether or not it's a true "deal breaker"  or if it's just an "ego maker".
    "Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly." - Sam Keen

  4. DDE profile image26
    DDEposted 4 years ago

    So much has changed and not every one wants to commit. In the past relationships were more meaningful now it is more about materialism than  love and bonding permanently.

  5. Lady Guinevere profile image60
    Lady Guinevereposted 4 years ago

    Too many other things getting in the way and the Media is giving kids the wrong impression about lots of things such as body image, sex, financial status, etc...Oh and the church is making you believe that if you do not marry then there is something wrong with you.


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