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What to do when you feel hopeless of finding love and are at the verge of giving

  1. KewlWriter profile image73
    KewlWriterposted 6 years ago

    What to do when you feel hopeless of finding love and are at the verge of giving up?

  2. Lord De Cross profile image82
    Lord De Crossposted 6 years ago

    Be positive
    look in places you never went to
    get closer to God
    young generations are having lots of issues, is not only you
    try cyber date
    play the lotto

  3. Keerthy profile image58
    Keerthyposted 6 years ago

    Be +ve. Your Number will come Wait for that one.

  4. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 6 years ago

    It's time to take up a new hobby!  Join that class you've always wanted to.  It's such an easy way to meet new people to mix with (And therefore a potential mate). Salsa dancing, tennis club, the Gym etc, are great ways to meet new people and even if you didn't find love quickly that way you are filling in your spare time in a positive way.  Best wishes.

  5. smzclark profile image59
    smzclarkposted 6 years ago

    stop looking and someone will come to you when you least expect it. work on yourself. become fulfilled in yourself. appreciate having some time to concentrate on only you, because when that day comes when true love finds you, you will have two people to consider. people can sense a person 'looking' from a mile away and it doesn't attract the better ones...just my opinion

  6. Eunice Stuhlhofer profile image59
    Eunice Stuhlhoferposted 6 years ago

    Try not to be occupied with just finding someone because you might be driven to take anyone--and then get disappointed. You're significant and worth waiting for the right person. In the meantime, discover yourself by doing fulfilling things for you and others.  God is a match maker ask Him for someone, since he knows you more than anyone else.
    Best wishes.

  7. xethonxq profile image64
    xethonxqposted 6 years ago

    Stop looking and start just enjoying life. Love will come on its own terms in its own time. It will happen, probably when you're least looking for it. Relax and just be you...it will come.

  8. mattdigiulio profile image75
    mattdigiulioposted 6 years ago


    I think the most important thing is to not feel so hopeless when you don't have it. Understand that you can still be attached to external relationships without having TOO much attachment to them. Spend time doing the things you like to do, exercise, cultivate enough of a life for yourself that you could do with or without.