Is asking your partner for more (sex) awkward or selfish?

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  1. atlovesbm profile image68
    atlovesbmposted 12 years ago

    Is asking your partner for more (sex) awkward or selfish?

    What do you do if you are unsatisfied with your sex life (in a marriage or relationship)? Is asking for more too selfish?

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  2. atlovesbm profile image68
    atlovesbmposted 12 years ago

    Just wanted to hear other people's point of views! Thank u for ur input.

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  3. Ana Teixeira profile image60
    Ana Teixeiraposted 12 years ago

    I don't think the problem is Quantity as much as it can be quality. also.. being honest in a relationship is the most important thing. If someone isn't at ease with their partner to talk about sex.. they shouldn't be having it in the first place. If your partner says you might be asking "too much".. then maybe you should see a doctor also. Maybe even together. Make this a problem of "both of you" and not just a problem of one person to another. Be honest.. and you'll solve it, together smile

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  4. xethonxq profile image65
    xethonxqposted 12 years ago

    I don't think it's selfish at all. I think a good relationship invites these types of conversations.

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  5. Gregoryy profile image61
    Gregoryyposted 12 years ago

    Honesty is paramount in relationships. Hiding your true feelings may not be a good idea, and it may backfire. Relationships are about tearing down walls, and sharing your dreams, thoughts, and desires with your partner.

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  6. smzclark profile image60
    smzclarkposted 12 years ago

    Your partner may want more too. you don't know until you're honest and open about it. If you're unsatisfied then spice it up! If there's always an excuse being made, then that's different and needs talking about. But if it's just that there isn't enough going on...then make it happen :-) . it usually happens that the more you give the more you get.

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  7. juiwei2000 profile image58
    juiwei2000posted 12 years ago

    YOu can force them to have more sex with you, but asking for it, sure why not?

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