If you caught your partner cheating on you in your house and bedroom will your

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  1. Shadrack2 profile image47
    Shadrack2posted 2 years ago

    If you caught your partner cheating on you in your  house and bedroom will your forgive or divorce?

    There are those who believe that cheating in marriage or relationship is the unforgiveable sin and would no doubt end in divorce or separation. Others believe it is the extend of cheating that matters. While some can forgive just almost anything. If you found your significant other with another person in the act right in your own bedroom, what will you do?

  2. one2recognize2 profile image75
    one2recognize2posted 2 years ago

    Cheating is one thing but bringing it to the home you share is downright disrespectful not to mention disgusting,

    1. Shadrack2 profile image47
      Shadrack2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      one2recognize2  what would you do in such a case?

    2. one2recognize2 profile image75
      one2recognize2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Send his butt packing, there's no going back after something like that. If can cheat on you and do it in your own house there should be no need to think twice. It may be hard because you may still have feelings but you will be better off ending it.

  3. tamarawilhite profile image91
    tamarawilhiteposted 2 years ago

    You're leaving out the option of shooting him.

    1. fpherj48 profile image78
      fpherj48posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      LMAO  Tamara.  Not  rational but funny as heck!  What about letting him LIVE but making it so that he will FOREVER wish he was DEAD!  Sound much more civil?  LOL! (Call me, I'll send you the Instruction manual)

    2. Shadrack2 profile image47
      Shadrack2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Hehehe Tamara Wilhite can you do that really, lol. Unless you are not scared of jail.

  4. Matt Easterbrook5 profile image80
    Matt Easterbrook5posted 2 years ago

    You would have to divorce. This person's actions show complete disrespect. They are showing that they have no care for you as their partner. Divorce and move on as you will find your happiness in the future.

    1. Shadrack2 profile image47
      Shadrack2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Mmm, Matthew sounds like a great advice. What if they begged for forgiveness like their whole life depended on it?

    2. Matt Easterbrook5 profile image80
      Matt Easterbrook5posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Do not fall for that shadrack. If they really cared about you they would not have cheated in the first place. They are only trying to manipulate and will do it again. The old saying get out while you can with limited damage.

  5. JG Hemlock profile image79
    JG Hemlockposted 2 years ago

    I would forgive but I would remove them from my life. I would not want them as a life partner anymore. They would get a big fat divorce and I would find a equally yolked mate who knows how to honor me and respect me. Not only is cheating breaking the covenant you made with God but then to have the most utmost disrespect in your very own marriage bed? Oh that is just complete defilement of marriage, trust, love. A complete betrayal on every level. People can be forgiven but that type of thing shows an utter defect in ones character. God can fix anyone but that doesn't mean you have to stay married and put your body and spiritual life in danger. My spouse would be out the door in a NY minute, as well as that defiled marriage bed.

    Leaving out the option of shooting him. hahahaha funny Tamara!

    1. Shadrack2 profile image47
      Shadrack2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Well said JG Hemlock , I think what I get from all these is that marriage must be respected and honored.

  6. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 2 years ago

    https://usercontent2.hubstatic.com/13013139_f260.jpg

    Divorce.

    1. Shadrack2 profile image47
      Shadrack2posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      dashingscorpio wouldn't you opt for any other resolution mechanism?

    2. dashingscorpio profile image87
      dashingscorpioposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Everyone is entitled to have their own "deal breakers" and one of mine is cheating. Divorce is a resolution mechanism!
      If you can't trust someone the relationship is already doomed.

 
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