How do you know she is the one?

  1. Reynold Adade profile image60
    Reynold Adadeposted 6 years ago

    How do you know she is the one?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    Aside from how you feel about her it is important that you (naturally agree) on the major things as well as have the same goals for the relationship. The dating/courtship phase is more than going out to dinner, movies, concerts, traveling, and other events. This is a time for doing "due diligence" to determine if this is someone you want to have an exclusive relationship with or possibly spend the rest of your life with.
    A lot of people make the mistake of becoming "emotionally invested" during the infatuation phase of a relationship before they actually get to know the "authentic" person. At the start of a new relationship most people bend over backwards to "impress" those they are attracted to. This may lead one to belive they have found their "soul mate". A couple of years later when this person reverts back to their "natural self" you might feel that you were a victim of "bait & switch".
    It takes more time to get to know someone than a lot of people are willing to invest these days. It's not uncommon to hear a person say, "He or She is not the same person I fell in love with." I wrote about this awhile back. " Relationships: Do We Save Our Best for the Beginning?"
    http://dashingscorpio.hubpages.com/hub/ … ebeginning

    One other important requirment is, in order for her to be "the one" she must also see you as being "the one". - Best of luck!

 
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