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How will you know that a Guy has a good intentions to you?

  1. Happy Knees profile image59
    Happy Kneesposted 12 months ago

    How will you know that a Guy has a good intentions to you?

    I need your views for this

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 12 months ago

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    Only time, words, and deeds will prove if he is offering what (you) want.
    Each of us gets to (choose) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    It's up to you to have your own "must have list' or "mate selection process" to determine if he is "right" for (you).
    Whenever you make it about the (other person) you lose your focus as to (what it is that {you} want in a mate). You're better off doing away with the idea of "good intentions".
    Good intentions is nothing more than finding someone who wants what you do. If you want the same things it's all good.
    Just because you may want an exclusive relationship with someone who is only interested in casual dating at this time doesn't mean he/she has "bad intentions".
    It simply means they do not want what (you) want.
    Honest communication is the GPS for relationships.
    It lets you know if you're "growing together" or "growing apart".
    Early on it's a little unrealistic and premature for someone to already have a "plan for you" in their life. It takes time to get to know someone. Great relationships "evolve" (over time).
    The goal shouldn't be to find a guy who is looking for a wife but rather to meet a guy who after (getting to know you) causes him to want to get married!
    You want to be "the right one" for each other and not "the next one" whom you've decided was going to be your spouse. Beware of people with "preconceived dating goals".
    They're putting more value on obtaining a "relationship status" than getting to know (you)!
    The person you're with should be the reason why you want to be exclusive or get married.

    1. The0NatureBoy profile image45
      The0NatureBoyposted 12 months agoin reply to this

      You explained it so completely I have nothing to say. I give you the "Thumbs Up" for it.

    2. Happy Knees profile image59
      Happy Kneesposted 12 months agoin reply to this

      Wow. Amazing. Thumbs up and A big Applause to you dashing scorpio. Thank you for your wonderful feedbacks. Have a nice day and Godbless smile

    3. savvydating profile image96
      savvydatingposted 12 months agoin reply to this

      Good answer. Just know, Happy Knees, that actions speak louder than words. His words may lack truthfulness, but his actions will tell everything you need to know about his true character.

    4. Happy Knees profile image59
      Happy Kneesposted 12 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Mrs. Yves. Have a nice day ahead smile Godbless

 
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