the bad side, no matter what led to it , you go through a period of sadness, some people even get really depressed. if there are chldren they may also feel really sad. however, the good side is that you hopefully get a chance to start again and move on with your life, hopefully you will not make the same mistakes again. it is a time to discover who you are and to love that person. Children can also benefit from this, especially if the past relationship was violent or abusive.
There is really no good side to it if you have children. You will both be financially hurt for a long time and the children will be torn. Luckily I'm re-married and my wife and ex get along well.
The number one cause for divorce is and always has been selecting the wrong mate.
In the big scheme of things a divorce is nothing more than one or both people coming to the realization that a (mistake) was made. It’s a setback emotionally and oftentimes financially. However it’s not the end of the world. Every ending is a new beginning!
The human spirit has the capacity to overcome heartache, disappointment, and doubt in order to rise and find love again better and stronger with newfound wisdom.
As far as children are concerned...Children would rather be (from) a broken home than (live) in one. Kids don't need to be exposed to all the drama and tension that comes with observing an unhappy marriage.
I offer more of opinion on this subject in my hub DIVORCE: The Upside
http://dashingscorpio.hubpages.com/hub/ … The-Upside
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