Bf left me 4-5 times ( you answered my question on veronica's page
thanks for your answer on my question about my ex dumping me 4-5 times. But I suffer because he used to cry and suffer a lot about our families that are different and he felt stuck between his false identity(unknown to his family) and his real self who he shares with me and other people.He seemed very desperate the last times but when he dumped me before he said hurtful things then cried and said he had to say those..and begged for being pardoned. he always said he could not be without me and he showed it also.i just don't know if he sacrificed himself for the family matters. what do u say?
Mar7, You are not listening to your inner guide or the words you have written, "he used to cry and suffer a lot..." All of what he said or did is in the past!
In order to move forward you have to live "in the now". It has been said, "Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears." However with age comes wisdom and men learn everything that glitters ain't gold and women learn (actions speak louder than words)!
You are responsible for YOUR own happiness. You keep making this about him and how he mistreated you. Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse. In order for him to have dumped you 4-5 times you would have had to take him back 4-5 times!
Logically it makes no sense for you to want to be with someone who does not want to be with you! The healthy thing for you to do is (love yourself) and then forgive yourself for allowing this man to play you like a yo-yo. With 7 billion people walking the planet you must know there is someone who would love and treat you with respect. Stop thinking about what he wanted or does not want. Love yourself enough to know when you are dealing with B.S.
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