Why it is easier?
Why it is easier to fall in love than falling out of love?
I believe that we are programmed to need and want to need the comfort of a warm embrace, the soft touch of our other half's breathing, the support, the approval, the company, the good sex (even the mediocre---nobody's perfect), not to mention the hard cold but true financial support and maybe a baby or two?
Apart from all that, what also makes it more difficult is not having found oneself. That means having a clear and true knowledge of one's wants, likes and love for oneself.
You need someone to give you an emotional bondage and that emotional bond comes only through love.So you feel it is easy to fall in love.
Falling out of love means a mistake was made. People hate to be wrong, they hate to give up, and they hate the thought of having to start over with somone new. However if one truly loves them self they won't stay in a bad relationship for long. There are 7 Billion people on this planet. Odds are there is someone who will want what each of us wants and that inlcudes believing we are "the one" for them. People who hang on lose sight of just how many options they have in the world.
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