Why do some women think it is fun to take another women.s husband?

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  1. flashmakeit profile image61
    flashmakeitposted 11 years ago

    Why do some women think it is fun to take another women.s husband?

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    ashelladyhawkeposted 11 years ago

    Because they are too lazy to get off their cute little butts and find their own. Then again, if the husband wasn't trying to fool around, he makes an easy target. As always, it takes two to tango. So in reality, she would not be able to take him if he wasn't already looking for way out or at least a "friend with benefits".

  3. lupine profile image67
    lupineposted 11 years ago

    If he's already someone else's husband, they don't have to do all the cooking and cleaning for him, they just want to do the fun things and not have any responsibility.

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    ahorsebackposted 11 years ago

    Impulse control ,  self gratification , immaturity .........just to name a couple . Some people are just too lazy to 'do the work' of maintaining a good relationship with a partner !

  5. dashingscorpio profile image80
    dashingscorpioposted 11 years ago

    Human beings are competitive by nature. People tend to value things that require effort or a challenge to obtain. Those things which are perceived to be in abundance are generally thought of to be less valuable. (dirt, water, salt...etc)
    According to many articles and media outlets a "good man" is hard to find. Therefore these types of women that observe a so called "good man" are likely to try to see if there is a chance he is not happy or they can possibly get him for themselves. As opposed to believeing there are other men available just (like him). Nothing is more challenging than taking someone from another person especially if the couple appears to be happy.
    Last but not least the (lazy) or (frustration) factor plays a part. These types of women may be tired of the "tricky world of dating" and frustrated with the whole process of finding a "suitable man". They realize they are working with the kind of man they want but he is married, or there is "good man" who is married that lives across the street from them, or they know a 'good man" who is married to one of their acquaintances. Sometimes these women are actual friends of the wives.
    In many instances the wives have been (bragging) about how good the man is in bed or how much he adores her. This does nothing but make her man seem all the more valueable in these women's eyes!

  6. fpherj48 profile image61
    fpherj48posted 11 years ago

    Women who intentionally go after the theft of someone's husband, have extremely low self-esteem and a bit of self-loathing...not to mention zero morality.  Husband stealers are not content to have a single man fall in love with them.  In order to get their rush and make them feel the least bit superior to other women, they must snatch a man from his wife and family.  I don't know if they think this is "fun."  I would tend to believe it's motivated by selfishness, to attempt to feed their sick egos.
    These women also would have to be slightly masochistic, knowing that a man who cheats.......cheats repeatedly...and she will be next to feel the crush.

    1. fpherj48 profile image61
      fpherj48posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much.  I am flattered you chose my answer as best!

  7. LetitiaFT profile image72
    LetitiaFTposted 11 years ago

    According to Karl Jung, the husband stealer or home-wrecker corresponds to a certain psychological profile. Most often, she dumps the guy, leaving him high and dry too, and goes after another one.

  8. Rusti Mccollum profile image61
    Rusti Mccollumposted 11 years ago

    I don't know why exactly what goes through one's head, but I do know. If they are cheating on their spouse with you and they DO leave their spouse for you. Sooner or later, you become the spouse whose so rotten they HAVE to cheat again, What makes one so special that he/she thinks they will be faithful to them, if they can't be faithful to their spouses. It's called Karma and rotten judgement. I don't blame the person they are cheating with, because they will find someone to cheat with, I blame the person who wears the ring and took the vows. They should get divorced instead of hurting their spouse over and over. Do the right thing and get counseling, or leave if you are that unhappy. Women/men should know these cheaters don't WANT to leave their spouses they just want to get some strange as they say. If I caught my hubby cheating I'd be gone so fast, because I deserve better than lies and alibis.

  9. techap profile image59
    techapposted 11 years ago

    It is just for the sake of getting jealousy from other women and also to make them feel inferior in keeping pace with their husbands because of which their husband turned to them.


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