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What would you do or say.....

  1. windygreen profile image60
    windygreenposted 4 years ago

    What would you do or say.....

    (if you are heterosexual)  if a member of the same sex expressed interest in you?
    or
    (if you are homosexual)   if a member of the opposite sex expressed interest in you?

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    JThomp42posted 4 years ago

    Nip it in the bud. I would politely tell them that I am only interested in women. I'm sure this would suffice, because it has probably happened to them before.

    1. windygreen profile image60
      windygreenposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Good answer , thanks!

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      JThomp42posted 4 years agoin reply to this

      You are very welcome Windy.

  3. duffsmom profile image60
    duffsmomposted 4 years ago

    Just smile and be pleasant and say that I was involved with someone. No need to discuss sexual orientation. No thank you is no thank you.

    1. windygreen profile image60
      windygreenposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Thank u for your great answer!

  4. basicallyme profile image86
    basicallymeposted 4 years ago

    You act the same as if gender wasn't the issue, and you just weren't interested....and be kind.  You don't even have to bring up sexual orientation. If the person persists though, I guess you'd have to let them know of your "preference".

    1. windygreen profile image60
      windygreenposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Great answer!! Thank you.

  5. MickS profile image71
    MickSposted 4 years ago

    Tell them that 'I don't play for the other team.'

  6. lburmaster profile image83
    lburmasterposted 4 years ago

    My friend Jen actually did that for a while, it got worse when she was drunk. Luckily, she has diminished her drinking and I just step away every time she expresses interest.

    1. windygreen profile image60
      windygreenposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      oo now thats a really hard situaton ... when your friend is attracted to you but u dont feel the same ... regardless of genders or personal sexualities.

  7. xanzacow profile image70
    xanzacowposted 4 years ago

    Very good question, unpredictable lover of green. I think I would just give them a gentle rejection. If that worked, nothing else would be said.

    1. windygreen profile image60
      windygreenposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      thanks for your answer   wink

  8. dghbrh profile image76
    dghbrhposted 4 years ago

    I will be polite enough to reject which will automatically show my preference.
    Politely with a nice thanks  state that I am with someone.
    Thanks.

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    Just Nateposted 4 years ago

    I've actually had this experience before. Unfortunately the guy was not one of the more reserved and classy gays but something of a predator, so I ignored him and he got the message.

 
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