In real life, I have a bad habit of letting other women share, and not sharing any part of my life. It seems to make ppl like being around me quite a bit cause we are focused on them the whole time, but I end up feeling like I don't matter. (That came out more depressing than I meant it to be. lol)
I feel the same way. My best friend never talks about anything but herself. If I try to bring my life up at all she somehow twists it around to be about her life. I'm used to it now, but it's rather annoying.
I rarely talk about myself other than a short sentence or two. When I talk about myself, it is more likely to be a funny story that happened. ahorseback, you need to find some less self-centered people to hang around.
I don't do that and I've never heard any other woman or man do that! Sounds to me like they're flirting with you and want to hear what you have to say about them, hoping all the while that it's juicy and exactly what they hoped you would say...
Must say I have never heard that one, but to answer the question, perhaps because these women are a bit self absorbed. I'm guessing its a joke though, so its actually kind of cute in a shallow, I love me kind of way. I would have responded "nah I think I'd rather listen to you tell me how amazing I am!"
Always is a strong word as I have never made the statement you refer to and I am a woman over 50! I am thinking you need to look for a different type of woman if you find that they "always" say things that insinuate they are only concerned with themselves. Begin by looking in places with women of intelligence and personal motivation who will not need your flattery to feel good about herself. Good luck!
why do you think that some men will let you down, never put you first and then when you ask why or show even just a tiny expressionof not being happy . . .They flip blamin the whole thing on us. . Never own up to ever...