Is he worth giving another chance?

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  1. profile image51
    souloversposted 5 years ago

    Is he worth giving another chance?

    my boyfriend constantly accusing me of cheating, which I havent. last weekend while visiting family & friends I spent the night at my daughters & he stayed at the hotel. later on that night he sent me pictures of him & another woman in our hotel room. im sick over this & all his accusatings that are only in his head. can anyone give me some advice besides dumping his sorry ass?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 5 years ago

    There are over 7 Billion people on this planet! Why would you choose to be with someone who treats you like crap? What advice would you give your daughter if she were involved with a man like this? Do you really believe this is the (best) you can do?
    Those are just some of the key questions you need to ask yourself before continuing to deal with this type of "drama". YOU are responsible for your own happiness! Each of us gets to (choose) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    Stop making this about "him". If you go to the grocery store to purchase an apple but buy an onion instead....Whose fault is that? Do you curse the onion for not being an apple? No! (You) learn to become a "better shopper"!
    The beautiful thing about a door is it lets those who want in (in) and those who want out (out). No one is "stuck" with anyone! You are where (you) want to be and with whom you want to be with.

    1. profile image51
      souloversposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      thank you!!! this is exactly what i need to hear! you're right, it is about me & not him. can you give me some direction on how & where to go so i can change this about me?

    2. stricktlydating profile image83
      stricktlydatingposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Totally agree.  You will find happiness by leaving him behind. Staying is only asking for bigger problems, because he has issues which will not be worth losing your santiy over if you want to try to change his behaviour!

    3. dashingscorpio profile image88
      dashingscorpioposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      You have to look inside yourself for answers. Also consider talking to a therapist for help as well. The are lots of books on the market that offer dating/relationship advice. Mine is: My Cat Won't Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany) Best of luck!

  3. innerspin profile image91
    innerspinposted 5 years ago

    This man sounds cruel and insecure. You don't need someone like this in your life. I completely agree with dashingscorpio. Personally, I couldn't take the drama and hassle of being with a person like your boyfriend. The longer you're together, the worse it will be.

 
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