Homosexual Thoughts in a Heterosexual

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  1. thirdmillenium profile image60
    thirdmilleniumposted 14 years ago

    Has any homosexual thoughts occurred, even fleetingly,  in you though you are a complete heterosexual?

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image61
      prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I admire women and I am also drawn to sexy images, i say WOW, but I am a woman, I just admire them, their physical attribute,,,

      But I never thought of kissing them or something like that, I might throw up,

      But I have nothing against lesbian too, I cant just make love to them, I am for men only

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      cosetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this


    3. Susana S profile image93
      Susana Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It's extremely common and very "normal". I'm pretty sure there's very few people out there who have never had a homosexual thought.

      Personally, I have all kinds of thoughts since I'm bisexual lol

    4. Jenny De Ville profile image59
      Jenny De Villeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I think what turns people on is an entirely different matter to their sexuaity. I have thought about many different things to get the mood going but it doesnt mean i ever want anything other than a man. Thats why your mind is your perfect private place smile

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    Justine76posted 14 years ago

    OMG!! whats up with all the gay threads!!?? Who cares? I dont care what sexual thoughts my best friends have, its none of my business. I couldn't care less about the private thoguhts of people I odnt even know. 
    Unless your wondering if its abnormal? did you have thoughts that disturbed you?
    Dont worry, evybody has 'em. Your Ok and God wont kill you.

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      hey TM, that wasnt really exactly directed at you, its jsut annoying how many homophobic questions there have been lately is all. I do hope your OK.

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    bloodnlatexposted 14 years ago

    I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.  I have the most profound and intimate thoughts of things to do to and with women.

    1. Daniel Carter profile image61
      Daniel Carterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Well, if it's any consolation, Catherine Zeta Jones makes me want to be a lesbian.

  4. Colebabie profile image59
    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    I've never considered having sex with a woman or being with a woman in a relationship. But I think a lot of women are sexy. I think some of it is jealousy however smile

    At a concert once, a drunk friend of a friend wanted to make out with me. I allllmost did it. With five guys watching they were trying to be quite convincing. But I said no thanks. She ended up making out and sleeping with later on, one of my guy friends.

    1. Richieb799 profile image74
      Richieb799posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Sounds like your drunk friend was looking for affection and did'nt care where she got it, which is often the case

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    The only homo thought I've had is,"What the hell is wrong with bunch of knuckleheads!"

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    cosetteposted 14 years ago

    good for you! i'm glad you're 100% straight! you get a cookie wink

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      sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You have cookies? I like cookies!

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    cosetteposted 14 years ago

    chocolate chip. smile

    well i have the chips and the flour and the sugar and the butter and the eggs...assembling all of that into cookies is an entirely different matter.

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      sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'm not much help during the building phase but I am great tester!smile

  8. Mrs.Nita profile image60
    Mrs.Nitaposted 14 years ago

    Once or twice I've dreamed of being with a woman in my sleep. The dream disturbed me, so I asked my husband about it.  He said if I dreamed of being with a woman that means I'm lesbian, but I disagree.  After all I am married.  Not only that but, we women tend to be emotional at times, and moody.  At least I know that I am pretty moody, I can't deal with another woman being like me.  Men can at least sympathize with us when we are having our womanly issues, another woman will probably complain that she has the same issues.  Where is the fun in that?

  9. Bovine Currency profile image60
    Bovine Currencyposted 14 years ago

    I am not a fan of labels.

    I was only with women all my life until I met the woman I married, we experimented a little and I wasn't adverse to the male body.  I experimented some on my own too.  Homosexual, heterosexual, don't care.  I fancy girls though.  Was good to experiment. 

    Sex, drugs and plastic dolls.

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    pgrundyposted 14 years ago

    Why do you care? People have all kinds of thoughts, all the time.

    I don't understand why this forum is so soaked in Christian insecurity and homophobia.

    Having homosexual thoughts doesn't make you gay anymore than wanting to choke the living crap out of someone makes you a serial killer.

    It's what you do that counts, not what you think.

    1. Sa Toya profile image82
      Sa Toyaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I couldn't agree more!
      I've had some thoughts about women I admire them and their assets and all that but I've had the odd thought or 3, even though actually doing anything with a woman does not turn me on in the slightest- I lurve MEN!

      It's weird- I've had it (not to a serious extent)but I didn't dwell on it to be honest

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      sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Because the circus is in town!

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    Leta Sposted 14 years ago

    Nope.  Actually never.  Totally wrong equipment for me, wink.  But I used to go to gay dance clubs (the only ones that let in 18-19 year olds when I lived in Omaha!), and have gay friends.  Mostly females, though.  I've yet to have a close gay guy friend.

  12. Cheeky Girl profile image65
    Cheeky Girlposted 14 years ago

    I know straight people who have never admitted to having gay feelings or thoughts. Some were being truthful, others were keeping their mouths closed for fear of people knowing what they really thought. Since I am BI, I have nice feelings about everyone male and female, though I have a girlfriend currently. Some people need to satisfy their curiousity, and that's ok. There's a lot of peope out there who are like that and they spend their lives doing nothing about it. They are almost living a weird dream state...

    There's thinking a thing and then there is doing a thing. Perception and reality. I woke up to who I am. I am no longer confused about things any more. But I would never force or push my opinions on others. Attacking people won't solve anything. So I don't go around shouting from some soap box. There's nothing wrong with being hetro or being gay. Love is love, in any gender.

  13. Cheeky Girl profile image65
    Cheeky Girlposted 14 years ago

    That is a very good point. People can love with the mind, or love with the heart.

  14. Richieb799 profile image74
    Richieb799posted 14 years ago

    Sometimes after I have watched a tv show or film and it has a male acter in that I think Is so cool and awesome, and you can recognise that they are attractive. But that is not a homosexual thought. We know what homosexual thoughts are. I and I would never ever want to do that as long a there are females roaming the planet. That is my personal choice.


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