What attracts a woman to another woman
Actually, my biggest girl!crush to date has been Kara Thrace from BSG (the fictional character, not so much the actress by herself, curiously). "Softness" and "style" do not really apply.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgM7uHpgG4o
That said, I would imagine taste in women varies among lesbian and bisexual women just like taste in men varies among straight women.
why would a woman fear dominance from men? Not all men are dominant but you sure as heck seem it!
But phobia is not an attraction.
For some cultures it is considered a taboo for a woman to be attracted. to another women. In any case why get attracted to same sex while the grass is always greener on the other side.
nice curves, great smile and how she acts like a lady but has that look about her that lets you know shes ready
I think she may be after her clothes and jewelery ..
My best friend is a lesbian and I've got a ton of lesbian friends. What they find attractive in another is the same variety of reasons straights go for.
My good friend is a very petite, feminine girl who goes for the take charge type with a sporty, boyish figure.
Yet in the bedroom she's the dominate one in a very big way, who knew!
What attracts a woman to another woman? A man, of course!
Adam was sittin' in the garden, thinking. He looked up, and said. "Dad? Why did you make women so beautiful?" Lord said "So that you would love them." Adam thought, then said, "Why did you make them so dumb?" And God said, "So that they might love you, too." (True Story)
- sandra rinckposted 12 years ago
0Okay sounds funny but I am missing something so you only get a lo.
I'm not answering to this
but I've noticed how stupid many of these replies are,
most of them not answering the question--what attracts a woman to another woman! The question was to list facts
not argue about who has heterophobia. What the heck kind of word is that? Who cares what people are?....is it us to judge? Do you judge EVERYONE by EVERYTHING? duh
- i wonder
Heterophobia describes reverse discrimination based on sexual orientation and implies an irrational fear of or aversion toward heterosexual people and institutions. Coined as a direct analogy to homophobia, "heterophobia" is used by some opponents[1][2] to various legal and civil rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people, when is used instead of heterosexism.[3]
yeah like this is the reason people want to have sex with the same kind, to aggravate others
SGFR~ You rock sister! Keep smiling!
I like your new picture UW!
Thanks
- sandra rinckposted 12 years ago0
Personality counts in a major way. Having many things in common. Sharing beliefs and ideas, and tastes...wow, there are so many things, I'd need a hub to ...sorry gotta go, just had a great idea for a hub!
Lets see... I have had a few female crushes in my day. I have admired their natural beauty, lips and the eyes, its always the eyes.
Shannon Tweed, early 90's watching her adult B movies
Gina Gershon, ever since I saw her in Showgirls in '95
Angelina Jolie, ever since I saw her in Firefox in '96 - present
I know I missed someone. I will have to ask my husband!Honey are you serious?! That is my all time favorite lesbian seen! Too Late! LMAO but I'll watch it again anyway
Oh yeah
So there's far more to it than just the envy of her friend having wholesale accounts for shoes and handbags?
What causes a woman attracted to a woman?
Genes. And they must fit very tight and the body must have all the right curves...I don't know about that rosario, some can get a bit pushy, obsessive and very jealous. Some become stalkers too!
SCARY
One of the reasons why I chose to be with a man...Been there, done that, over it. Thats where the stalker came into play gguy! LOL
- zampanoposted 12 years ago0
maybe what attracts a woman to another is just the lack of charming, seductive, intelligent man.
As far as I'm concerned, I am deeply sorry...
Mea culpa, mea maxima culpa. - ralwusposted 12 years ago0
There is no denying that men are attracted to beautiful women. Maybe it's just the same thing that attracts women to other women too?
Or maybe not? 
- Neville Walkposted 12 years ago0
Well, we can say the same about men: Do men ordinarily set light on their own farts?
Fortunately men only are stereotyped for these kinds of jokes. Rightly so, it would be grossly impolitely for human beings to make jokes about women giving birth for example. Which reinforces the reason why woman to woman love and attraction is so pure and genuine. As they say, you can critique a person or their work if you're an expert at it.I think your question asks more about the male mindset than about bisexuality.
I want to say first of all that I am not a man-basher. I LOVE men. To a fault, even. They're amazing and I could NOT live without them. Seriously. And I know a lot of people assume someone who is bi is equally attracted to both genders. I am NOT. I lean very heavily toward the male side as far as preference goes. Men are great.
HOWEVER.
Most men (I'm generalizing) seem to have very close-minded views on sexuality, whether it be hetero, homo, or bi. Most men assume a man is either gay or straight, and assume a woman is bi. This is why men seem to be shocked and totally disbelieving when women aren't interested in MFF threesomes. It is assumed we are all into women, maybe because women (generalizing again) have no problem with openly expressing affection (if we hug another woman, obviously we want to have sex with her, right?).
I think that as much as I respect and love and adore men, I see them (GENERALLY and in reference to hetero men) as very narrow-minded, and usually extremely resistant to even considering that not all women are bisexual or are even willing to go there "just to try it".
Also, I know the assumption most people have (and woman think this too) is that men CAN'T be bisexual. It is assumed that if a man has sex with another man, he HAS to be gay. That the sex he also has with women is fake.
I think it comes down to whether or not you choose to believe the "popular" opinion (which, in my opinion, is usually wrong) or explore the issue and look for facts.
The fact is, both men and women can be bisexual. Both men and women can be homosexual. Both men and women can be heterosexual. And I don't think that one or two experimental encounters determines sexual orientation. If it did, almost every single straight person EVER would be gay or bisexual and almost every single gay person EVER would be straight.
Hmmm...interesting thread. It's funny how it went all heterophobic/homophobic instead of just exploring the myriad of answers to the question. If the question had been "What attracts a woman to a man?" or "what attracts a man to a woman?", sexual orientation would not have come into play. And then, if the question had been "what attracts a man to another man?", things would have gotten so very, very ugly.
As a bisexual woman, I'm attracted to women for the same reasons I'm attracted to men; just the anatomical parts are different. I'm not looking for marriage or commitment, so maybe I don't know anything but if I'm attracted to a man, it's an attraction--primarily physical, at least in the beginning--based on the aspects of his looks that appeal to me. I don't have a "type" or a list of standards or anything, and often I'm surprised at what attracts me.
The same is true for my attraction to a woman.It all depends on who that woman is attracted to. There are so many things that women seem to become to attracted too when it comes to falling for the same sex. We see alot of things that we like because we are used to the same features.
It's really nice to hear your ideas and tastes everyone. Smiles to you Lisa... I'd like to share a video with you from Fingersmith http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQfvvbgu … re=related . I think this love scene with Elaine Cassidy is just so hot, I just have to share it with you guys in this thread.
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