What Happens To Boys Who Lose Their Virginity To Women?

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   Say Yes To Lifeposted 11 years ago

   What Happens To Boys Who Lose Their Virginity To Women?
   
   Obviously, the really extreme cases like teachers having sex with 12 year old boys is WAY out of line. But what about situations described in songs like Neil Diamond's "Desiree" and Bobby Goldboro's "The First Time"? Does a young man losing his virginity to a stranger woman nearly twice his age damage his psyche in any way?

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   Ancillottiposted 11 years ago

   Well, it really is complex to evaluate.
   For the few studies on these cases.
   It is quite likely that yes, you are taking a break from having a stage of the child. This can affect your training, and end up generating sexual disorders of fear, and depending on how may happen even create a concussion as the relationship with the opposite sex.

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      Say Yes To Lifeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I believe studies should be done on this.  I think the fact that it's largely ignored is why these teachers are molesting boys.

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   dashingscorpioposted 11 years ago

   Most teenage boys worst fear is to die being a virgin! LOL
   I'm not certain if having sex with a grown woman who is a (stranger) would damage their psyche. Most guys do not place a high value on their virginity and therefore do not have the mindset of "I'm going to save myself for the love of my life." If anything they're more likely to brag about all the sex they haven't really had!
   Having said that if a teenage boy has sex with an older woman who is a constant in his life there is a good chance that he may form an emotional attachment or believe they have a "relationship". Naturally this is likely to lead to experiencing heartache once he sees her dating men in her age range.
   Last but not least once a guy has sexual experience he is likely to expect to have sex with most of the girls he dates. If the older woman "taught" him any skills he will apply them in his seduction process.

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      Say Yes To Lifeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks for answering.  Do you think this causes the boy to objectify girls?  Will this make him a cheater after marriage?

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