Is It Okay to Seduce Somebody?

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  1. AdsenseStrategies profile image69
    AdsenseStrategiesposted 10 years ago

    Or, in fact, on the contrary, do we not actually all *want* to be seduced? wink

    1. seyiari profile image61
      seyiariposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      the only person you have the right to seduce is your husband or your wife.

      1. babyching profile image59
        babychingposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        What if we're not married?  We don't have the right to seduce anyone?

    2. falcon64 profile image63
      falcon64posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Not allowed, if both of you has a string attachment already. And more worst if one of you are not available anymore. We allowed only to seduced our partner.

      1. Cagsil profile image77
        Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Who mentioned anything about strings attached? roll

    3. prettydarkhorse profile image62
      prettydarkhorseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      it depends on your purpose and relationship with the person

      1. Cagsil profile image77
        Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Hmmm......? lol lol

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      cosetteposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      se·duce (s-ds, -dys)
      tr.v. se·duced, se·duc·ing, se·duc·es
      1. To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct. See Synonyms at lure.
      2. To induce to engage in sex.
      3.
      a. To entice or beguile into a desired state or position.


      i guess it's ok to seduce someone (adult) if that is how someone operates, although it's not something i would enjoy doing. do we all want to be sedcued? big_smile nooooo......

      1. Friendlyword profile image60
        Friendlywordposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Any other way of engaging in sex would be mechanical.  Seduction is the way of the world.

      2. AdsenseStrategies profile image69
        AdsenseStrategiesposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Ah, you're one of them dictionary types.....

      3. Mikel G Roberts profile image76
        Mikel G Robertsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Nicely Done...I must agree.

        1. AdsenseStrategies profile image69
          AdsenseStrategiesposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          So you wouldn't want to be "sedcued" either wink

          1. Mikel G Roberts profile image76
            Mikel G Robertsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Personally I wouldn't mind it, but I'm sure some people would mind.

    5. IntimatEvolution profile image78
      IntimatEvolutionposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Feel free to seduce me...

    6. wsp2469 profile image61
      wsp2469posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      All the women I have ever known wanted it. . .that's for sure.

      1. Pearldiver profile image78
        Pearldiverposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I love the way you avoided stating whether they Got It tho lol

        1. wsp2469 profile image61
          wsp2469posted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Ok.  I'll kiss and tell but won't mention any names.
          Yes.  They all got it providing they had some place to take me.
          There was this one Latina lady who had to take me to a motel and another that wanted me to do her in her work van and I am just too classy of a guy to make the first time in a vehicle, ya know?

    7. profile image0
      Ghost32posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I actually dislike the concept immensely.  Much rather have the other person just be straight up with me about where they're coming from.  Don't know why, though; could be a personality disorder!  lol

    8. Black Lilly profile image60
      Black Lillyposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Both, at the same time - we want to be seduced, though without any response that won't work very well...
      It's the game for two wink

    9. Stevennix2001 profile image89
      Stevennix2001posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      i actually like being seduced by women, but i don't mind doing seducing of my own if i have to.  wink lol

      1. tantrum profile image58
        tantrumposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        So where's Beth ??




        big_smile

        1. Hokey profile image60
          Hokeyposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          are you stalking me? yikes

        2. Stevennix2001 profile image89
          Stevennix2001posted 10 years agoin reply to this

          oh she's around.  wink lol  in fact, i was hoping i could seduce her wink lol

          1. tantrum profile image58
            tantrumposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Why don't you practice with me ! hmm

            lol lol

            1. Stevennix2001 profile image89
              Stevennix2001posted 10 years agoin reply to this

              lol lol lol thats a tempting idea. wink lollol however, i'd hate to risk breaking her heart like that. besides, i care too much about her to ever do that. wink lol

              1. tantrum profile image58
                tantrumposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                I'm only joking Steven ! lol
                it won't break Beth's heart! I'm sure she knows me ! big_smile

                1. Stevennix2001 profile image89
                  Stevennix2001posted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  lollollol

  2. KCC Big Country profile image87
    KCC Big Countryposted 10 years ago

    Sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow.  It's a game all healthy adults like to play.  They like to play both roles one time or another.

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    A Texanposted 10 years ago

    I'm here, do your thing.

    1. profile image0
      lyricsingrayposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      lol  waiting too lol

    2. Paradise7 profile image83
      Paradise7posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Is that a microphone your holding in your avatar picture?  Do you sing, baby?

  4. Paradise7 profile image83
    Paradise7posted 10 years ago

    OK TO SEDUCE SOMEONE????  Gee, why not, it happens all the time.

  5. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 10 years ago

    Yes. If they're over the age of 18 and they're the opposite sex.

    1. nosmo_king profile image61
      nosmo_kingposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      The age of consent in Hawaii is 16! Oh and what if you bisexual or gay?

      1. livewithrichard profile image85
        livewithrichardposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        If you're an adult then it doesn't matter what the age of consent is. An adult having sex with a minor is Sexual Abuse and is still against the law, at least it is here in the US.

    2. ForKicks profile image58
      ForKicksposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yet, pedophiles exist.

  6. astoic profile image59
    astoicposted 10 years ago

    No, it is not okay. One must keep away from such things. If someone comes on to you, they are trying to seduce you. You must not allow it.
    Seduction is wrong; sex is sin.

    1. Cagsil profile image77
      Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You are kidding right? lol lol lol

    2. ForKicks profile image58
      ForKicksposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      This is why I look at religion more as politics.

      How do people reproduce? The stork?

  7. jimmythejock profile image86
    jimmythejockposted 10 years ago

    seduction is a vital part of any loving relationship.....jimmy

  8. Cagsil profile image77
    Cagsilposted 10 years ago

    Yes, it's okay to seduce somebody. It's also okay to let yourself be seduced.

    To inhibit natural desires can be dangerous, just as well, as letting them roam free.

    Sexual desires given into seduction can be a very exciting point to arousal. Not to mention, someone knows when they are being seduced or that a person is trying.

    The action itself isn't mystifying. It open and easily seen. smile

  9. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 10 years ago

    Good lovemaking is the art of seduction ,dontya think tongue

  10. RecoverToday profile image83
    RecoverTodayposted 10 years ago

    That's a good question. But I have one to fire back at you: What are your motives?

  11. salt profile image70
    saltposted 10 years ago

    I think the real art of seduction is to make something beautiful. Seduction to me would be something that is agreable to both, not one persons desires being met through the manipulation of another.

    Seduction in my mind should be something that is fun and playful.. and fully consentual.

  12. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 10 years ago

    Yes if they have all their senses and they're over 21.

  13. Misha profile image66
    Mishaposted 10 years ago

    I am over 21 and have all my senses. Would you please Sneako? Pretty please? wink

  14. profile image0
    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 10 years ago

    absolutley!!
    Seduction is part of the fun...

    Infact I always have a bunch of aphrodisiacs on hand, and about 20 "new" ones for Valentine's Day..and they do work..wink

  15. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 10 years ago

    Misha I do love you but I have performance issues you might want someone more predictable.big_smile

  16. Misha profile image66
    Mishaposted 10 years ago

    Ahh, everybody says no to me today sad

    * moves away bubbling: couldrons of mucus, lightning bolts, performance issues...*


    lol

  17. tantrum profile image58
    tantrumposted 10 years ago

    lol

  18. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 10 years ago

    Hey Tantrum did you get my message? Please excuse my interuption.smile

    1. tantrum profile image58
      tantrumposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes! Didn't you receive my answer ??

      are you talking about the e-mail?

  19. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 10 years ago

    Yes! I just got on the computer I was out hunting!

    1. tantrum profile image58
      tantrumposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Hunting chicks ?
      big_smile

      lol

  20. wychic profile image88
    wychicposted 10 years ago

    Yes, it is absolutely okay to seduce and be seduced! For my own sense of morality, the people either need to be connected to each other or not at all (after all, how do those new relationships start?) but I know I love both sides of that m'self smile.

  21. profile image60
    logic,commonsenseposted 10 years ago

    You can only be seduced if you want to be seduced!
    Try me anytime! smile

    1. blondepoet profile image63
      blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Ok I will what time suits.

      1. Cagsil profile image77
        Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I think he already said "anytime"? lol lol lol

        1. blondepoet profile image63
          blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Oh he did too Cags, great I'll go pack my little bag of tricks

          1. Cagsil profile image77
            Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            I can just imagine what those are? lol roll lol

            1. blondepoet profile image63
              blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Do you want me to show you....see I'm at it already I aint modest LMAO

              1. Cagsil profile image77
                Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                I think I'll stick with my imagination. The truth could be scarier. lol


                How are you today Blonde? smile

                1. blondepoet profile image63
                  blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Hahahaha ye man with little faith
                  I'm great today, just about ready to whip up a couple of sausages for tea. Stinking hot here today 38C...stick to the seat weather

                  1. Cagsil profile image77
                    Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Oh I have faith in myself, I just don't really need to know. Well, not at this particular point in time. yikes tongue

                    Actually, sounds like great weather. It's about 33F here. lol lol

                  2. wsp2469 profile image61
                    wsp2469posted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    38C?  Sounds like a cup size!

      2. profile image60
        logic,commonsenseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        ,
        BP, I will always make time for you!

        1. blondepoet profile image63
          blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Woo hoo done deal Logic although I have probably already started it ages ago with my cheesey pick-up lines. That was a classic wasn't it?

          1. profile image60
            logic,commonsenseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Hey babe, I usually miss you this time of day, how are you, besides awesome? smile

            1. blondepoet profile image63
              blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I'm much better now that I bumped into you.

              1. profile image60
                logic,commonsenseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Hope you didn't bruise that beautiful bod! smile

                1. blondepoet profile image63
                  blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Sorry I was away my tummy was going beserk so quickly cooked up a two min dinner, am dropping bits and pieces in the keyboard but it is all good ROFL

                  1. profile image60
                    logic,commonsenseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Not only beautiful, but a great cool as well!  The perfect woman!

    2. profile image0
      Malyasposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I couldn't agree more. It's part of the dance. As they say, it takes two.

  22. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
    mistyhorizon2003posted 10 years ago

    Seduction and being seduced are exciting if you are single and not at risk of hurting anyone. You don't have to be married to enjoy this, and you don't have to be dating or serious about the partner so long as you are careful. In my twenties being flirted with and the game of seduction were a real adrenalin rush, and the resulting encounters were often equally as much of a high from what I recall, (which is not to say my encounters were numerous, so much as memorable!)

  23. Misha profile image66
    Mishaposted 10 years ago

    Ah Cindy, I would seduce you any time smile

    1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      LOL Misha, I am flattered, but aren't you married last time I looked?? wink

  24. Pearldiver profile image78
    Pearldiverposted 10 years ago

    You Toucha My Granderma..... I Breaka You Face.. Capeesh?? lol

  25. profile image0
    BSBabyposted 10 years ago

    Yes, Only if that person is not married, and with good intentions of course.  It's not a bad think wink
    Ashley B.

  26. profile image0
    lyricsingrayposted 10 years ago

    pick me, pick me big_smile

    1. Cagsil profile image77
      Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      lol lol

  27. blondepoet profile image63
    blondepoetposted 10 years ago

    Lay it on me lover

    1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image91
      mistyhorizon2003posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Glad you said "lay it on me" rather than "get laid on me" BP winkwinkbig_smile

      1. blondepoet profile image63
        blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        hahaha well I'm sure the latter will follow providing it's all good.

  28. profile image0
    BSBabyposted 10 years ago

    It's not a bad thing....
    Ashley B.

  29. Cagsil profile image77
    Cagsilposted 10 years ago

    I don't. It just doesn't seem all that important to learn about. Not just yet. Moderation in learning is a good thing. lol lol lol

    1. blondepoet profile image63
      blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Ok Cags got to go my little Budgie Charlie is callin'

  30. profile image0
    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 10 years ago

    seduction is all a fun part of the begining of foreplay for concenting people...
    enjoy it, embrace it and most of all, have fun with it!

  31. yenajeon profile image80
    yenajeonposted 10 years ago

    I've actually never seduced anyone. I'm so old fashioned, shouldn't it be the mans job to initiate? Lol

  32. profile image0
    BSBabyposted 10 years ago

    I am Guilty, LoL
    Ashley B.

  33. Jonathan Janco profile image63
    Jonathan Jancoposted 10 years ago

    Is it ok to seduce somebody? It better be, because I'm still waiting.

  34. mega1 profile image77
    mega1posted 10 years ago

    AND there are all kinds of seductions happening all the time - little seductions like the way your kids seduce you into reading an extra bed-time story, the way you are seduced by a rainbow into taking a long walk to find the pot of gold, the seduction of HubPages as a place to explore -   Seduction does not always have to involve sex, although it is very nice when it does!

    Now I have seduced you into exploring mega1!

  35. theirishobserver. profile image59
    theirishobserver.posted 10 years ago

    mega1, you say you are being suduced by fellow Hubtastic people, shame on them, now have you read my poem that I posted today.....or should I have said...would you like to see my Simpsons collection...they are in my bedroom...hanging from my fourposter bed.....and there is lots of other toys also.... smile

  36. profile image0
    ralwusposted 10 years ago

    Seduction needs a seducee to happen. So in that light all is fair in love and war! Let the games begin!

    1. blondepoet profile image63
      blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Hey ralwus woo hooo it is so great to see you back. How are you feeling?

  37. profile image0
    ralwusposted 10 years ago

    Hello Deb. I am better thanks. going ta bed shortly. How are you darling poetess?

    1. blondepoet profile image63
      blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Was so worried about you, oh boy oh boy, didn't want to mail you, cause I wanted to give you space to get better, but for someone who doesn't pray much these days I certainly did for you.

      1. profile image0
        ralwusposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I know you did and am so thankful, it helped. Really it did. g'nite dear princess of OZ. xox

        1. blondepoet profile image63
          blondepoetposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Gnite my dear buddy of the Wild Wild West.

  38. profile image48
    varunmagoposted 10 years ago

    its ok....till the time u dont get hurt or hurt someone ...

  39. profile image52
    Jill Bruceposted 10 years ago

    I was very attracted to a handsome, sexy guy that I had talked to at a couple of parties.  He came to my work, said he'd like to take me out, just the two of us.  My reply?  "Yes, I'm sure that would be nice, but I'd really rather spend the night with you".  He was, to say the least, a little taken aback by that, but he got over it.  We've been married more than 20 years now.

  40. Hokey profile image60
    Hokeyposted 10 years ago

    Do your best....I'm ready!   big_smile

  41. bg jojo profile image60
    bg jojoposted 10 years ago

    Is it not okay to flirt?  Do we not act on instinct?  Isn't doing what is true in our nature being truthful whether it be through seduction or flirtation in order to get the ones we fall for?

 
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