Is It Okay to Seduce Somebody?

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   AdsenseStrategiesposted 13 years ago

   Or, in fact, on the contrary, do we not actually all *want* to be seduced?

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      seyiariposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      the only person you have the right to seduce is your husband or your wife.

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         babychingposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         What if we're not married?  We don't have the right to seduce anyone?

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      falcon64posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Not allowed, if both of you has a string attachment already. And more worst if one of you are not available anymore. We allowed only to seduced our partner.

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Who mentioned anything about strings attached?

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      prettydarkhorseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      it depends on your purpose and relationship with the person

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Hmmm......?

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      cosetteposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      se·duce (s-ds, -dys)
      tr.v. se·duced, se·duc·ing, se·duc·es
      1. To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct. See Synonyms at lure.
      2. To induce to engage in sex.
      3.
      a. To entice or beguile into a desired state or position.
      
      
      i guess it's ok to seduce someone (adult) if that is how someone operates, although it's not something i would enjoy doing. do we all want to be sedcued? nooooo......

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         Friendlywordposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Any other way of engaging in sex would be mechanical.  Seduction is the way of the world.

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         AdsenseStrategiesposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Ah, you're one of them dictionary types.....

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         Mikel G Robertsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Nicely Done...I must agree.

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            AdsenseStrategiesposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            So you wouldn't want to be "sedcued" either

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               Mikel G Robertsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Personally I wouldn't mind it, but I'm sure some people would mind.

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Feel free to seduce me...

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      wsp2469posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      All the women I have ever known wanted it. . .that's for sure.

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         Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         I love the way you avoided stating whether they Got It tho

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            wsp2469posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Ok.  I'll kiss and tell but won't mention any names.
            Yes.  They all got it providing they had some place to take me.
            There was this one Latina lady who had to take me to a motel and another that wanted me to do her in her work van and I am just too classy of a guy to make the first time in a vehicle, ya know?

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      Ghost32posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I actually dislike the concept immensely.  Much rather have the other person just be straight up with me about where they're coming from.  Don't know why, though; could be a personality disorder! 

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      Black Lillyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Both, at the same time - we want to be seduced, though without any response that won't work very well...
      It's the game for two

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      i actually like being seduced by women, but i don't mind doing seducing of my own if i have to. 

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         tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         So where's Beth ??
         
         
         
         
         

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            Hokeyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            are you stalking me?

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            Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            oh she's around.    in fact, i was hoping i could seduce her

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               tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Why don't you practice with me !
               
               

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                  Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  thats a tempting idea. however, i'd hate to risk breaking her heart like that. besides, i care too much about her to ever do that.

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                     tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     I'm only joking Steven !
                     it won't break Beth's heart! I'm sure she knows me !

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                        Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        

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   KCC Big Countryposted 13 years ago

   Sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow.  It's a game all healthy adults like to play.  They like to play both roles one time or another.

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   A Texanposted 13 years ago

   I'm here, do your thing.

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      lyricsingrayposted 13 years agoin reply to this

        waiting too

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      Paradise7posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Is that a microphone your holding in your avatar picture?  Do you sing, baby?

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   Paradise7posted 13 years ago

   OK TO SEDUCE SOMEONE????  Gee, why not, it happens all the time.

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   sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

   Yes. If they're over the age of 18 and they're the opposite sex.

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      nosmo_kingposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      The age of consent in Hawaii is 16! Oh and what if you bisexual or gay?

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         livewithrichardposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         If you're an adult then it doesn't matter what the age of consent is. An adult having sex with a minor is Sexual Abuse and is still against the law, at least it is here in the US.

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      ForKicksposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Yet, pedophiles exist.

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   astoicposted 13 years ago

   No, it is not okay. One must keep away from such things. If someone comes on to you, they are trying to seduce you. You must not allow it.
   Seduction is wrong; sex is sin.

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      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      You are kidding right?

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      ForKicksposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      This is why I look at religion more as politics.
      
      How do people reproduce? The stork?

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   jimmythejockposted 13 years ago

   seduction is a vital part of any loving relationship.....jimmy

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   Cagsilposted 13 years ago

   Yes, it's okay to seduce somebody. It's also okay to let yourself be seduced.
   
   To inhibit natural desires can be dangerous, just as well, as letting them roam free.
   
   Sexual desires given into seduction can be a very exciting point to arousal. Not to mention, someone knows when they are being seduced or that a person is trying.
   
   The action itself isn't mystifying. It open and easily seen.

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   Eaglekiwiposted 13 years ago

   Good lovemaking is the art of seduction ,dontya think

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    RecoverTodayposted 13 years ago

    That's a good question. But I have one to fire back at you: What are your motives?

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    saltposted 13 years ago

    I think the real art of seduction is to make something beautiful. Seduction to me would be something that is agreable to both, not one persons desires being met through the manipulation of another.
    
    Seduction in my mind should be something that is fun and playful.. and fully consentual.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Yes if they have all their senses and they're over 21.

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    Mishaposted 13 years ago

    I am over 21 and have all my senses. Would you please Sneako? Pretty please?

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 13 years ago

    absolutley!!
    Seduction is part of the fun...
    
    Infact I always have a bunch of aphrodisiacs on hand, and about 20 "new" ones for Valentine's Day..and they do work..

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    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Misha I do love you but I have performance issues you might want someone more predictable.

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    Mishaposted 13 years ago

    Ahh, everybody says no to me today
    
    * moves away bubbling: couldrons of mucus, lightning bolts, performance issues...*
    
    
    

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    tantrumposted 13 years ago

    

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    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Hey Tantrum did you get my message? Please excuse my interuption.

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       tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Yes! Didn't you receive my answer ??
       
       are you talking about the e-mail?

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    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Yes! I just got on the computer I was out hunting!

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       tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Hunting chicks ?
       
       
       

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    wychicposted 13 years ago

    Yes, it is absolutely okay to seduce and be seduced! For my own sense of morality, the people either need to be connected to each other or not at all (after all, how do those new relationships start?) but I know I love both sides of that m'self .

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    logic,commonsenseposted 13 years ago

    You can only be seduced if you want to be seduced!
    Try me anytime!

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       blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Ok I will what time suits.

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          Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          I think he already said "anytime"?

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             blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             Oh he did too Cags, great I'll go pack my little bag of tricks

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                Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                I can just imagine what those are?

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                   blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                   Do you want me to show you....see I'm at it already I aint modest LMAO

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                      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                      I think I'll stick with my imagination. The truth could be scarier.
                      
                      
                      How are you today Blonde?

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                         blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                         Hahahaha ye man with little faith
                         I'm great today, just about ready to whip up a couple of sausages for tea. Stinking hot here today 38C...stick to the seat weather

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                            Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                            Oh I have faith in myself, I just don't really need to know. Well, not at this particular point in time.
                            
                            Actually, sounds like great weather. It's about 33F here.

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                               blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                               How do you know I wasn't going to show you my pet budgie, we called him Charlie Wanker, he is learning to talk.

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                            wsp2469posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                            38C?  Sounds like a cup size!

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                               blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                               Haha good one Wsp.

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          logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          ,
          BP, I will always make time for you!

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             blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             Woo hoo done deal Logic although I have probably already started it ages ago with my cheesey pick-up lines. That was a classic wasn't it?

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                logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                Hey babe, I usually miss you this time of day, how are you, besides awesome?

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                   blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                   I'm much better now that I bumped into you.

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                      logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                      Hope you didn't bruise that beautiful bod!

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                         blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                         Sorry I was away my tummy was going beserk so quickly cooked up a two min dinner, am dropping bits and pieces in the keyboard but it is all good ROFL

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                            logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                            Not only beautiful, but a great cool as well!  The perfect woman!

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                               logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                               Oops meant cook.

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                                  blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                  Aww you say the sweetest things you have mail too

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                                     logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                     Gotta head for bed, many hours of work ahead.  Have a great day!

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                                        blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                        See you logic was great catching up...sweet dreams my dear friend.

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       Malyasposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I couldn't agree more. It's part of the dance. As they say, it takes two.

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    mistyhorizon2003posted 13 years ago

    Seduction and being seduced are exciting if you are single and not at risk of hurting anyone. You don't have to be married to enjoy this, and you don't have to be dating or serious about the partner so long as you are careful. In my twenties being flirted with and the game of seduction were a real adrenalin rush, and the resulting encounters were often equally as much of a high from what I recall, (which is not to say my encounters were numerous, so much as memorable!)

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    Mishaposted 13 years ago

    Ah Cindy, I would seduce you any time

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       mistyhorizon2003posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       LOL Misha, I am flattered, but aren't you married last time I looked??

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    Pearldiverposted 13 years ago

    You Toucha My Granderma..... I Breaka You Face.. Capeesh??

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    BSBabyposted 13 years ago

    Yes, Only if that person is not married, and with good intentions of course.  It's not a bad think
    Ashley B.

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    lyricsingrayposted 13 years ago

    pick me, pick me

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       Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       

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    blondepoetposted 13 years ago

    Lay it on me lover

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       mistyhorizon2003posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Glad you said "lay it on me" rather than "get laid on me" BP

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          blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          hahaha well I'm sure the latter will follow providing it's all good.

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    BSBabyposted 13 years ago

    It's not a bad thing....
    Ashley B.

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    Cagsilposted 13 years ago

    I don't. It just doesn't seem all that important to learn about. Not just yet. Moderation in learning is a good thing.

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       blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Ok Cags got to go my little Budgie Charlie is callin'

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 13 years ago

    seduction is all a fun part of the begining of foreplay for concenting people...
    enjoy it, embrace it and most of all, have fun with it!

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    yenajeonposted 13 years ago

    I've actually never seduced anyone. I'm so old fashioned, shouldn't it be the mans job to initiate? Lol

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    BSBabyposted 13 years ago

    I am Guilty, LoL
    Ashley B.

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    Jonathan Jancoposted 13 years ago

    Is it ok to seduce somebody? It better be, because I'm still waiting.

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    mega1posted 13 years ago

    AND there are all kinds of seductions happening all the time - little seductions like the way your kids seduce you into reading an extra bed-time story, the way you are seduced by a rainbow into taking a long walk to find the pot of gold, the seduction of HubPages as a place to explore -   Seduction does not always have to involve sex, although it is very nice when it does!
    
    Now I have seduced you into exploring mega1!

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    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    mega1, you say you are being suduced by fellow Hubtastic people, shame on them, now have you read my poem that I posted today.....or should I have said...would you like to see my Simpsons collection...they are in my bedroom...hanging from my fourposter bed.....and there is lots of other toys also....

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    Seduction needs a seducee to happen. So in that light all is fair in love and war! Let the games begin!

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       blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Hey ralwus woo hooo it is so great to see you back. How are you feeling?

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    Hello Deb. I am better thanks. going ta bed shortly. How are you darling poetess?

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       blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Was so worried about you, oh boy oh boy, didn't want to mail you, cause I wanted to give you space to get better, but for someone who doesn't pray much these days I certainly did for you.

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          ralwusposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          I know you did and am so thankful, it helped. Really it did. g'nite dear princess of OZ. xox

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             blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             Gnite my dear buddy of the Wild Wild West.

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    varunmagoposted 13 years ago

    its ok....till the time u dont get hurt or hurt someone ...

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    Jill Bruceposted 13 years ago

    I was very attracted to a handsome, sexy guy that I had talked to at a couple of parties.  He came to my work, said he'd like to take me out, just the two of us.  My reply?  "Yes, I'm sure that would be nice, but I'd really rather spend the night with you".  He was, to say the least, a little taken aback by that, but he got over it.  We've been married more than 20 years now.

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    Hokeyposted 13 years ago

    Do your best....I'm ready!   

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    bg jojoposted 13 years ago

    Is it not okay to flirt?  Do we not act on instinct?  Isn't doing what is true in our nature being truthful whether it be through seduction or flirtation in order to get the ones we fall for?

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