Girls, Do you have a guy bestfriend even if you have a boyfriend?
In my case, it would be my son. He is my best friend. I think many women with a boyfriend also have a guy best friend.
I don't have a male best friend except my husband, but I do have a couple of close male friends. They're the ones I bounce ideas off of when I want more opinions, or if my husband isn't interested in helping. They're also the ones I go to if I'm confused about something in male nature, and I'm afraid my husband will take it the wrong way if I ask him. In many ways, they are in the "best friend" category. That hasn't changed because I'm married. That said, my first husband made me cut off contact with them because he felt extremely insecure that I talked to them. Not every significant other will accept that. Thankfully, my husband now is secure and understands that he has my love and loyalty, out of my own free choice, and doesn't feel threatened by my friends regardless of gender. I'm just super-lucky to have great friends who were still there waiting for me when I was ready to re-forge the friendship ties . I love the way my husband puts it, that differentiating male friends from female friends is "reducing the entirety of a human being down to a set of genitalia." They're my friends. Anatomy simply doesn't matter.
by Marcy Goodfleisch 2 years ago
Have you ever had to end a friendship? Why? And how did you do it?Sometimes things change, even between BFFs. Have you ever 'broke it off' with a good friend. Not someone you dated, but a friend?Why did you decide to move on? And how did you make your exit?
by LSKing 3 years ago
If you answered yes, then you may want to change your mind. It will only cause heartache and a broken friendship. I told one of my closest friends that her boyfriend was cheating on her and now we're no longer close. It hurts my heart because I didn't want to tell her but, the person he was...
by vanpelt 6 years ago
My(20yrs) wife's best friend is a man who is in-love with her. The man is married his wife emotionally not there.My wife I believe is trying to heal the wounds of a father who abandoned her as a little girl. My wife wants to continue the friendship with this man. She...
by megan1001 6 years ago
Boyfriends best friend is a girl....I hate herMy boyfriends best friend is a girl. They are having dinner near her house( bout 40 min away). He's going to her house (lives with parents) because they redid their basement and she wants to show him the new bar. Then they are going to dinner and...
by ashlei08 7 years ago
So, I really need some advice. I know my ex for 9 years we have been best friends for that long. However, we decided to start dating and our relationship lasted for about a year or 2 and we were very much in love. However, we broke up because I was being naive and didn't show him how much I...
by Sissy1804 8 years ago
im going to break up with my boyfriend, how do i tell him i like his bestfriend?i know his bestfriend likes me too and my boyfriend gets jealous of him but we cant help it. what do i do?
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