My best friend always flirts with my boyfriend, what should I say or do about he

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  1. stricktlydating profile image84
    stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

    My best friend always flirts with my boyfriend, what should I say or do about her behavior?

  2. MickS profile image61
    MickSposted 13 years ago

    flirt with her boyfriend in front of her.

  3. samman profile image61
    sammanposted 13 years ago

    To flirt with her boyfriend is a good idea. But telling her how you feel about it much better. You should also talk with your boyfriend. Actually he should not let your friend flirt with him.

  4. FduToit profile image70
    FduToitposted 13 years ago

    Tricky question... If you accuse her of flirting with your boyfriend she will probably deny it and call you paranoid, jealous or something like that.

    Tell (don't accuse) your boyfriend that you are under the impression that your friend enjoys flirting with him and listen to what he has to say about it. If he confirms that she is indeed flirting with him you can tell her that he told you she is flirting with him. She will get the message and will not be able to make you feel that you are the one being paranoid or jealous. In addition, you can tell her that if it's true (that she is flirting with him) that she is hurting your feelings and that it is not a way for a friend to behave.

    If your boyfriend denies that she is flirting with him you may either be reading too much into her behavior or have reason to believe that your boyfriend likes her as well and would rather lie to you about his feelings than tell you the truth about how he feels.

  5. evilia_lim profile image61
    evilia_limposted 13 years ago

    I think flirt with her boyfriend would make things worse and doesnt help at all. It will even become excuses to your boyfriend or your best friend to flirt more.

    Maybe you can just try not to let them meet. Dont bring your boyfriend if that place has your best friend and vice versa. Some people are just dont understand even you have already express how you feel about that.

  6. Drew nite profile image61
    Drew niteposted 13 years ago

    Just tell her how you feel. Also, let your boyfriend know how you feel.

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    reeltaulkposted 13 years ago

    what you should do is right on point, in a situation as such there is nothing to say!

  8. schoolgirlforreal profile image78
    schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

    This is not good. I wonder if part of the issue is, that your boyfriend does not discourage her. If he doesn't, and you are afraid of losing him (which may not be the case) then you can't trust him. [read my article about Pure Love..]
    If you're just annoyed at her, I would tell her in a firm yet gentle manner how inapproprieate it makes you feel or that it is. If she keeps it up, I would really let in to her and if that doesn't work I'd give up her friendship.

  9. profile image0
    jasper420posted 13 years ago

    let her know it bothers you be firm with out accusing her if she realy is your best freind she will back off

  10. padmendra profile image50
    padmendraposted 13 years ago

    You should express  about your bad feelings to your best friend  and if she is really your best friend, she would give up the flirting. If not, she would continue and for that you should act seriously to say your best friend   'mind her own business'.


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