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Do you love fat people???

  1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
    Nigham AFZALposted 4 years ago

    Do you love fat people???

    People make fun of the fat ones...often I have seen they taunt them or they 'd keep their extra or nick name...do fat ones look funny to you? Do you like fat people?

  2. definitions profile image62
    definitionsposted 4 years ago

    I don't look at someone's physique when determining whether I love them or not - what's most important is someone's braveness, kindness and ability to give and receive love.

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Definitions for your lovely answer... smile
      You 'll notice people try to judge a person from his first sight...not even giving him a chance to prove himself.

  3. Mahfoudh Muhammed profile image62
    Mahfoudh Muhammedposted 4 years ago

    Women can gain weight anytime in their lives, specially after having a baby. So they should not be blamed for this issue.
    Men have no excuse to be fat, unless they have a certain kind of disease which is very rare. I hate seeing a fat man, honestly. However, I wouldn't hate him in person. I'm not perfect myself. No one actually is.
    So, why hate?

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Mohammed, I did not actually talk about hating ...The thing is why someone is taunted or gets nick if he is not smart like us. Do fat ones are really ignored?

  4. luvtoowrite profile image42
    luvtoowriteposted 4 years ago

    My liking or loving someone has nothing to do with size. So yes, I have many curvy, thick, a few extra pounds friends in my life.

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      If someone gives a nick to you or to your kid just because he is bulky...what 'll you do???

    2. luvtoowrite profile image42
      luvtoowriteposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      My daughters had a grandmother who always pointed out weight gain when they were in their young teen years. I put a stop to that immediately! I told her she needed to focus more on her own appearance and clean her own doorstep for once.

    3. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you...luvtoowrite... smile Means one must be straight forward to that guy...

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    sheilamyersposted 4 years ago

    Fat or thin, tall or short, different skin colors, wild or "normal" clothes - none of that matters to me. I love people for what's on the inside. As the saying goes "pretty is on the outside, ugly (referring to how the person acts, etc) goes all the way to the bone".

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Adorable answer... smile

  6. Theophanes profile image98
    Theophanesposted 4 years ago

    People will find fault with you no matter who you are or what you look like. This doesn't means you're the one in the wrong, it just means they're a jerk. Or mentally disturbed, or prejudiced, or just raised to be hateful. This starts in childhood. I hear people says, "kids are cruel" ALL the time and it pisses me right off because children are not naturally cruel, they become cruel when no one disciplines them or sets them down and says, "HEY! How would you feel if someone were taunting you? Bad? Then knock it off!" If you feel persecuted for being fat or being with someone whose fat then find yourself someone to be around that acts like an adult and not a spoiled child.

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Great answer.
      Finally found... whatever I was searching for.  :p
      Thank you for your input, Ma''am! smile

  7. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    I believe everyone has some overweight family members and friends that they love therefore it is clear to me even those who do make fun of fat people also make exceptions. In fact there is no one who loves all skinny people either. Talk to anyone long enough and eventually they will reveal that too were made fun of in some way.
    People get knocked for baldness, bad teeth, bow legs, being short, tall & skinny, bad skin, cross eyed, hammer toes, bushy eyebrows, big ears, flat ass, big ass, big nose, big feet, big chin, no neck, and various birth defects. Very few us get a "free pass".

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Loved the line, " Very few us get a "free pass".
      Thank you for your fantastic input. smile

  8. DDE profile image25
    DDEposted 4 years ago

    Fat people  don't bother me it is how they choose to live their lives. I don't approve of any name calling  to fat people and they are not funny to me.

  9. bethperry profile image93
    bethperryposted 4 years ago

    I've had friends of every conceivable size and shape and don't care what they look like; it is their disposition and character that counts. But since making fun of the fat is pretty universal, I imagine some people find obesity funny. Why? I can't explain any more than I can why some folks make fun of blondes, gingers, people in glasses or kids that wear braces.

    1. Nigham AFZAL profile image74
      Nigham AFZALposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      You're so right, Bethperry!
      People eventually find out, how to make fun of the next guy! Or they may think it's cool to make fun of people who are less cool than you.
      Thank you for your answer. smile

 
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