Is having sex on the first date wrong?

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   Barine Sambarisposted 9 years ago

   Is having sex on the first date wrong?
   
   What is acceptable on the first date? What are the likely discussion topics? Will having sex on the first date make the lady look loose?

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   DDEposted 9 years ago

   Yes sex on the first date is totally wrong. It makes a woman look loose and that would mean she does it all the time.

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      Barine Sambarisposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      What if the sex was like a spur on the moment thing? i mean the guy shouldn't just write her off for that.

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      How does it make (him) look? Loose? Like he does it all the time? Women will never be "equal" to men until they stop caring what (men) think about them. Men don't care what women think about them having sex on the first date!
      It's (your) life.

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   NornsMercyposted 9 years ago

   In my opinion, it matters about the two people involved. Some people who have sex on the first date wind up being "soul mates" (or whatever you want to call it). Just because a woman/man had sex on a first date doesn't mean it's a habit. Every situation is different.

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      Barine Sambarisposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      I totally agree.

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   junksellerposted 9 years ago

   There's no magic formula to life. That's much of the fun in my opinion. People on the outside, looking in, aren't going to be able to give you a yes or no to these sorts of questions. And if they do, what they are really doing is just sharing with you their own prejudices.
   
   The only thing that really matters is the intimate space between two lovers. While outsiders might be able to help you evaluate that intimate space, ultimately these sorts of decisions have to be made based upon that intimate space which is always unique for any two souls who ever come together. It can be wrong for some, right for others.
   
   Personally, I think life is short. If you have a chance for humping vs. talking about humping, I say error towards the former.

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   dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

   It really depends on what the individual is looking for. If all you want is to relieve some sexual tension you have every right to have sex when (you) want to. On the other hand if you are concerned about what the other person may think of you then it may be best to wait until you know them better.
   All said it's your body and only you know what is "right" for you.
   Some people have had sex the first night they met and went onto get married and many others have sex the first night and it turned out to be the "only" night. In other instances people have been known to have vacation sex. They're not looking to establish relationships. Again it comes down to what (you) want.
   There is no "right" or "wrong" only "agree" or "disagree". Ultimately the goal is to find someone who (naturally) agrees with you!

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   deecoleworldposted 9 years ago

   it depends its up to you (f society and what others think, its all up to you)... if you do decide to have sex on your first date use condoms and make sure you are protected

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   Iliza6posted 5 years ago

   Yes. It's wrong. That means she slept with other men on the first date. Any man will tell no its fine to have sex on a first date because they want to take advantage of you.

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      dashingscorpioposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Men do it all the time! Only the individual can determine what is "right" or "wrong" for themselves. Women will never be equal to men as long as they worry about what (men) think. A woman should only have sex because (she) wants to period.

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