A quarrel is nothing more than a disagreement!
No matter who you are with there will be times where you (strongly) disagree on an issue. It's "normal".
However ultimately the goal is to choose a mate who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain the major things in life, and last but not least there is a mutual love and desire for one another.
If someone is (constantly) fighting with their mate there is a good chance that they chose the "wrong" person for them self. If either of you has to change your (core) being to make a relationship "work" it means you are with the wrong person.
Not many people are looking for someone to "change" them. Most people want to be loved and appreciated for who (they) are. One is better off investing the time to find someone who (already is) the kind of person they want to be with!
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
by These eyes 22 months ago
Why do men hurt the person they love? If they love a woman why they do crazy things?I have a good relationship with this man and he just admit that he was having an affair that he wants to continue seing that person. I never see this coming since everything was so great with us. We never have a big...
by Rage For Love 7 years ago
If you read my about me, then you'd see that I'm passionate about healthy, lasting relationships.I think there are 2 things that are the most important to a lasting relationship, without these, a relationship will most likely not stand against the test of time. Even if it does, there is about a 95%...
by Tigercub684 16 months ago
Can a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women in general, and still be gay, not bi?As a writer, i'm wondering if it's possible for a gay or straight character to be attracted to a person of the gender that opposes their typical sexuality? Like, a gay person to be in love with a...
by pinappu 11 months ago
Can an old man (60+) fall in love with a young woman (20+)?We all know that love ignores all barriers like: religion, race, distance and age. But is it really possible for a man of 65-70 years of age to fall in love with a young girl of 20-25 years of age. I mean, is it psychologically possible?
by Lady MJ 6 years ago
Why do men look for porn or images of other women when they have a nice looking wife?
by daintyshan 4 years ago
Why do older men go for significantly younger women?
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