Does it mean my boyfriend doesn't care?

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    LynnVerth84posted 9 years ago

    Does it mean my boyfriend doesn't care?

    When my boyfriend doesn't answer my text right away (hours later) or doesn't text me when he's out, does it mean he doesn't care or is losing interest? Up until this past week he would text me while we're out with our own respective friends. Not a crazy amount but we would still keep in touch. I don't know what to think. I'm not checking in on him, I just want to say hi... Our relationship is only 3 months old.

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    Daveadamposted 9 years ago

    Hey Lynn i know you might have all kinds of questions in your mind at the moment, but only "he" can answer those questions for you..So the way i look at it you have 2 options, you can ask him about it or put it out of your mind..I personally would suggest option 2, putting it out of your mind & do what ever you want to do with your time..So if he calls you tomorrow & wants to meet up & do something with you, great..If he doesn't call then great also, because your busy doing your own thing. :-)

  3. dashingscorpio profile image80
    dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

    It it's only been one week that you've noticed a change. At this point it's nothing to be worried about. However if it develops into a pattern over a few weeks there is a chance he may be pulling away from you. He may even be with someone else.
    The "infatuation phase" of most relationships lasts about 3-6 months. After that people start to reveal their "authentic selves" or revert back to their natural selves. An "unromantic" can only behave romantically for so long. It takes a while to (really) get to know someone.
    If you really want to find out if he's lost interest in you simply discontinue texting, emailing, and calling him. If he doesn't reach out to you it means a part of him if not all of him has moved on.
    "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
    - Oscar Wide

  4. DDE profile image46
    DDEposted 9 years ago

    I understand that you want to be in contact with your boyfriend but with a only three month relationship you got give each other time for each other.  When you get together you will appreciate each other's time and patience. He has his time and you have yours when you meet up share what you have missed.


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