Is what men need more important than what they think they want?
What do men really need from there Wife or Partner? What do women really need from there Husband partner?
What we all want surely is just the male or female equivalent of ourselves, & ourself should be defined by our hobbies, passions, interests, tastes, beliefs, morals & standards etc..So we're all given just the one mirror image of ourself, & that image is our opposite sex..So if we find our true identity by finding love in our lives for doing real physical things, we're then rewarded with our soul mate & so there is never any need to ever go looking for him or her..So when 2 people are rewarded for finding real love in their lives, they meet, fall in love, & stay in love for eternity, because as one changes the other changes the same way..So they won't need anything from each other, as they both have want they want, their soul mate. :-)
Needs always trumps wants! However there are only 5 things an adult "needs". (Air, Water, Food, Shelter, & Clothing). All of which can be provided in any prison.
It's our "wants" that distinguish us from one another. Everyone is entitled to have (their own) preferences, wants/desires, or goals.
Life is a (personal) journey. No one can (tell) you what (you) need in order to be "happy"! The best relationships are between likeminded people who share the same values and agree on the major things.
Each of us gets to choose our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
We are responsible for our own happiness.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
If being with someone or doing something makes one "unhappy" then it's best to abide by the old saying:
"If you want something different (you) have to do something different."
by Vandana 13 months ago
Suddenly this question strike in my mind today ... " Which is more important LOVE OR MONEY" to live a happy life ?? If any one have to select her partner which criteria one should follow for choosing her life partner..
by ploflooz 8 years ago
I just wanted to spin this differently unless its been done.The "Women need men like a fish needs a bicycle." Has been anin joke for years especially since fish don't ride bicyclesmen and women do. Its like a for fish bikes don't exist.So are women really saying beyond the cute joke:If...
by Dr Anupma Srivastava 6 years ago
Love and Friendship which is more important in life?Love and friendhip are two important aspect of human life. Can they replace each other?
by Brian L. Powell 5 years ago
Which of the these do you think is more important in a relationship: love or respect?
by \Brenda Scully 8 years ago
Thinking of writing a hub about this can you help give me your honest opinion as much detail as you like everyone can join in sorry for being so bossy, it's just nice to...
by jonsswagger1978 6 years ago
On one side of the coin looks are important, I firmly believe you have to be attracted to your partner sexually, but at the same time I find an intelligent woman to be very sexy indeed.
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