Is what men need more important than what they think they want?

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    TrenaJonesposted 3 years ago

    Is what men need more important than what they think they want?

    What do men really need from there Wife or Partner? What do women really need from there Husband partner?

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    Daveadamposted 3 years ago

    What we all want surely is just the male or female equivalent of ourselves, & ourself should be defined by our hobbies, passions, interests, tastes, beliefs, morals & standards etc..So we're all given just the one mirror image of ourself, & that image is our opposite sex..So if we find our true identity by finding love in our lives for doing real physical things, we're then rewarded with our soul mate & so there is never any need to ever go looking for him or her..So when 2 people are rewarded for finding real love in their lives, they meet, fall in love, & stay in love for eternity, because as one changes the other changes the same way..So they won't need anything from each other, as they both have want they want, their soul mate. :-)

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    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    Needs always trumps wants! However there are only 5 things an adult "needs". (Air, Water, Food, Shelter, & Clothing). All of which can be provided in any prison.
    It's our "wants" that distinguish us from one another. Everyone is entitled to have (their own) preferences, wants/desires, or goals.
    Life is a (personal) journey. No one can (tell) you what (you) need in order to be "happy"! The best relationships are between likeminded people who share the same values and agree on the major things.
    Each of us gets to choose our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    We are responsible for our own happiness.
    There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
    If being with someone or doing something makes one "unhappy" then it's best to abide by the old saying:
    "If you want something different (you) have to do something different."