I'm a 21 year old Jamaican; will I ever get married to a Chinese woman?

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   Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years ago

   I'm a 21 year old Jamaican; will I ever get married to a Chinese woman?
   
   I've always had a crush on Chinese women...but since lately my friends have been telling me to let go of such a "fantasy". But I don't think I can.
   
   

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   dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

   I don't see why not! There are online dating sites for meeting Asians or interracial dating sites. All you need to do is Google and research of them.
   Another alternative is take an extended trip to an Asian country. In order to meet people you have to run in the same circles/socialize more or less.
   Most Chinese Jamaicans are Hakka. Chinese Jamaicans were the second largest Chinese population in the Caribbean, behind Chinese Cubans during the 1960s. However during the 70s many relocated to Canada. Surly there must still be pockets of them living in Jamaica. Find out where they live, congregate, & socialize.
   At age 21 no one should be thinking things are "impossible"!
   Your whole life is ahead of you! Having said that most young people in their 20s are not ready for marriage regardless of race. The 20s are a time for self-discovery, getting an education, dating, traveling, and establishing a career path.

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      All true my friend!................and wow you seem to know a lot about Jamaican-Chinese women. In fact the motto for Jamaica is "out of many one people" because of our diverse culture. I'm 1/8 Indian. but still it's hard to catch a Chinese girl.

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Google has replace the Encyclopedia Britannica when it comes to gathering information. You might try jamaicandating.com or chinesepeoplemeet.com Best of luck!

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      cool.......

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   Dreamlinposted 9 years ago

   It’s all about the person you fall in love with, the inner beauty (such as personality, kind nature and maturity). True love is never about race and how they look. Chinese people believe in fate. Everything in life happens for a reason. I will not tell you your crush is impossible. Frankly, the world is full of possibilities. However, when true love comes knocking on your door, she may not be a Chinese girl you have hoped for, but please don’t push her away, just because she’s not a Chinese.  Have an open mind, when it comes to love. (By the way, the picture you use is a South Korean actress, maybe you have a crush on Korean not Chinese, just kidding!) Good luck. You are young. The right woman will come along, give her some time.

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Lol! good one...........But it would be a shame to have wasted all that time learning Chinese by myself for nothing.

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      Dreamlinposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Learning Chinese can boost your career. Never know, the language is quite popular these days. Think of future, my friend. You may not gain a Chinese girlfriend, but with the language skill, you may gain a career. Unless all you learn is "I love you".

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah, your right Dreamlin......but that's just another sad part of growing up.....Life always tells you otherwise; tossing out your childhood dreams.

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      At 21 you should still be having big dreams! There are over 1.3 Billion Chinese people in China alone. Odds are if you knew how to speak the language that would give you an advantage in assimilating into the culture. Explore student exchange pgrms

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      Dreamlinposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Your dream belongs to you. No one can take it away from you. People tell me writing is a hopeless career. I'm still writing novels, because that's my dream and I'm determined to make it a reality. Don't give up easily.

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      sounds like your a wise person. thanks

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   FatFreddysCatposted 9 years ago

   You can always move to China, your odds of meeting a Chinese woman would probably be pretty good there. ☺

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      true but.................................................I'm not really on my own yet; if you get me

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   realtalk247posted 9 years ago

   You can have what you want. First believe. Curious, do you have a crush on the Chinese woman/women because you respect their culture?  Do you love the character and heart of a particular Chinese woman?

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      Dwight Phoenixposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Good question...and I'm glad you asked.....Firstly I think Chinese women are some of the most diligent and traditional women you can find globally, have a beautiful country and language, Unprecedented dark flowing hair,and are just CRAZY BEAUTIFUL!!!

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