What is the best thing about being married? What is the worst?

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   Cassi10posted 9 years ago

   What is the best thing about being married? What is the worst?
   
   Marriage definitely has its pros and cons. What are they?

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   peachpurpleposted 9 years ago

   Been married for twenry years, here my pros and cons
   Pro~ got a perfect lover on bed,experience parenting skill, becoming a better chef and taking up responsibilities as a parent
   Cons~ list of freedom in speech, cannit voice my own opinion, cannot date my schoolmates, no friends, have to listen to breadwinner for everything, cannot wear clothes that i love, cannot eat food that i love, restricted participate in blogging, get scoldef when kids are sick and did mistakes

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Your cons sound as if you're living in a self imposed prison!
      Seriously most women in the U.S. would file for divorce from a man who controlled what they eat or wore and wouldn't allow them to "voice" their own opinions! Being married is a choice

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   liesl5858posted 9 years ago

   Best thing about being married is having a companion and best friend for life. I am married for twenty four years now and I can say I am still happily married. The pros and cons of being married. There are always things that a married couple can not agree on but there is always a compromise. I find that being married is better than being single in life. You got someone to share your life with and everything. For me, the worst in marriage is not having children if you are married. That is what I find.

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      dashingscorpioposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Not having children usually means a less stressful marriage, less drama, and being in a better financial position. Ultimately if having children was extremely important one could always adopt or even choose to work with children in their community.

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   dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

   Best thing
   Having someone to build and share a life with when there is a mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
   Worst thing
   Realizing you've chosen "the wrong mate" for yourself and having to go through an oftentimes emotional and expensive legal process.
   Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!

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   peter565posted 8 years ago

   I don't know about good.  But I know what is the bad thing.  You will have an "Angry yell machine with no off switch" at home.

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